I feel like he isn't trying hard enough like I am.

[Anonymous]

We only see each other on the weekends , and we used to see each other everyday. He works and he says that when he gets off he is to tired so he goes back to his cousin house because that's where he is living right now I don't have a car and the car that I do have I can only use it for work I plan to buy my own car soon. But what difference would that make because I can't go over he cousins house because his cousins girlfriend doesn't like other women over her house. I never met this cousin or been up to this house that he is living at and believe me I already pushed the subject and it always end in you don't have a car I'm not wasteing my gas blah blah. So I have dropped it he calls me every morning he is consistent with that. But yesterday I text him at six while I was at work he never replied he got off at 5 I called him at 8 30 when I got out and no answer. He tells me that he goes to bed around 8 or 8 30 so I assume he was sleeping. He calls me in the morning and I question him on his where abouts , and why he never called me back he said he called me on my house at 7...well why would he call my house at 7 when I was at work and I didn't see anything on the caller id. Also he said he called me on my cell but I don't have any missed calls from him. So I tell him you don't have to lie to me and tell me you called me when I know you didn't. Like he could at least said I know you called last night sorry I was sleep but he just gets on the phone and acts like its nothing and when I confront him on it he hangs up on me. That's another thing he does when he doesn't want to hear what I have to say he hangs up on me. I never do that to him and when I miss a call from him and he calls me up asking me 21 questions I reassure him and all he does when it happenes to me is call me a bitch, and hang up on me. How is this fair? Am I just overreacting? Should I just appreciate the fact that he calls me every morning? I just feel like this relationship isn't enough, and when I get my car we plan to move in with each other. And I tell myself things will get better then but he has to court dates coming that may also determine our relationship. I feel like I'm just hanging on waiting it out. And he said he is taking our relationship day by day I want answers is this going to change is it going to get better. Its his sh*t I'm dealing with he should have the answers but he doesn't.

[UberTroll]

So you say he lives with his cousin who you've never met and his girlfriend who doesn't like other women over the house. Are you sure he's not married or living with his own girlfriend? I don't see why his cousin's girlfriend would have a problem with him bringing girls over the house. What's it to her? It sounds like a story, especially considering how hard he fights you to stay away from the house and his not answering the phone at night. It seems awfully suspicious to me.

Even if he is telling the truth about his cousin, he's a terrible boyfriend. You caught him lying to your face, he hangs up on you, calls you names, and he doesn't seem to care about seeing you too much. I'd cut him loose if I were you. You can do better.

[lauramor]

If he is not caring and resoctful I would advice you to end the relationship because he won't change

[KingJR]

It won't get better. If he doesn't care about spending time with you, or contacting you at other times than the morning, then he's just not into you. I mean seriously, not wanting to waste gas...geez...sounds like love to me, right?...Dump the chump and find yourself someone who actually appreciates you and wants to spend time with you.