How dumb would it be to move to NYC or LA?

i live in a beautiful city in Colorado. just moved less than a year ago. i have issues with staying in one place. LA seems enticing with the beach and it might be easier to find a man there. having trouble meeting friends out here. with my job, i can choose anywhere to live. i think California would be next. NYC is close to home although i have a small family. a lot of people tell me not to do either though. thoughts?
How dumb would it be to move to NYC or LA?
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