Why do some drivers tailgate?

[Hairylegs222]

Backed up in traffic bumper to bumper going 5mph is one thing, but going 70mph on the highway only 5 feet behind a car or less is dangerous, stupid, and completely unnecessary. It always makes me nervous and worried when a driver does that to me. Try my best to stay out of their insane impatient driving ways.

It's like those kind of drivers think they own the road or something. "Get out of my way!" They're probably thinking lol. I can't believe how many drivers do it too.

Do they not care about safety on the road? What if I need to slam on the breaks for a dear on the road, or another car in front of me? They won't stop in time and rear end my truck.

It's a lot better to give each car some distance just in case at any speed. Obviously those jerks don't care about that or are too stupid to realize it until they get a ticket or in an accident.

[Dargil]

Because they are in a hurry and think you are delaying them. They think that you are taking something away from them and since the here and now are all they have, you are committing a micro aggression against them. (No kidding).

I developed a routine for this. I open my side window. put my hand out and give them a "back off" hand movement. More often than not they will not be told that by someone who is already taking something away from them and pull up even tighter. More often than not, it is a "Karen" in a crossover or Honda Accord and not a redneck in a F150.

Be aware that tapping your brake pedal to show brake lights will not fool them and they will ignore that. So what I do is ease back a few MPH to give me interval with the car in front of me. Then I quickly fill the gap. The tailgater inevitably does not immediately see what I am doing, and I open a gap between her and me. Then I firmly hit the brakes.

They may have slowed down when I eased back and had their foot on the brake. But then I do it a second time, that they were not prepared for. That's when they squeeze off a few drops of pee into those thongs or whatever. I watch them in the mirror and know I have scored when I see...

... and my day just improved.

[andreasderjuengere]

When I still used cars, that was kind of a game to me: to see if I can ''remotely'' manipulate the car in front to accelerate.
Meanwhile, I just leave them behind me. The turtles aren't fun any more.

[Hairylegs222]

I hate this answer... But it's what I was looking for that answers the question from someone that tailgates.

[andreasderjuengere]

Thanks for hating my attitude :)
You see, however,... I have no aggressive (or even road rage) feelings attached to this. It's just a ''mind game'' to me - or was, that is.
And each time I did it, I was on double alert on the brakes-foot :)

Anyhow: my motto in life is: ''the slow ones are left behind'' :D

[APrettyLittleLady87]

This morning on my way to work I watched a box truck pass a slower vehicle. Double yellow line, up a hill, and on a curve. It wasn't that the farm vehicle was purposely going slow it's just they can't go fast.

But the box-truck driver had the IQ of a slug and that's the average IQ of tail gaters.

Their low intelligence and lack of comprehension is further revealed in how 9 out of 10 tailgaters will sit at a stop sign when there's nobody coming for miles and everyone else more or less does a rolling stop.

[whereismyjohnny]

I don't know but I hate it. Especially when you stop at the red light and the car behind is literally a few centimetres from you 😑

I always keep distance while driving.

[MuddyMole]

Courtesy goes both ways - if the other driver is making it obvious they want to pass you, would it really hurt to pull over and let them by? Or if you're going below the posted limit for no good reason (ie. it's not raining or foggy etc) then maybe try accelerating.

The idiots who try to enforce speed limits by blocking other cars from overtaking, or deliberately slow to a crawl to annoy a tailgater, are just as bad as the tailgaters.

You must admit, it's pretty infuriating to be stuck behind someone crawling along at 40mph in a 60mph zone, where it's not possible to overtake safely (maybe it's a twisty road or there's a lot of oncoming traffic). At least the tractor drivers around here pull over when a queue forms behind them - not like all the tourists, who seem oblivious.

[goaded]

I always slow down in that situation. If they're not going to leave a gap sufficient to the speed, I'll slow down until it is.

It's stupid, anyway, because it reduces your chances of being able to overtake. You can't pick up speed while you're still behind the other car so you spend more time on the wrong side of the road.

[msc545]

People do this when they think you should get out of the way so they can go faster, and it doesn't matter how fast you are going to begin with - they will still do it. I manage this by slowing down about 5 miles per hour every mile until I am going just at the speed limit, and I sit there until they go around me. I don't believe in reinforcing bad behavior, and I am not going to let assholes push me around.

[exitseven]

I usually drive 5 or ten miles over the speed limit and there are still jerks that ride right up on my butt. I try to ignore them. I do not know why they do it because they really do not get to their destination any faster.

[dustybiker]

Obnoxiousness.
Try being on a bike when someone does this. Cops pealed them off me with lights and sirens more than once. Better them than me speeding up.

[SlickRick24]

They don’t like that your going 10 under probably! If you hit the gas you won’t have a problem. I’m a lead foot who has places to be like Sammy Hagar said “there’s to much traffic I can’t pass” then you tailgate hoping that cracker box car in front of you will pick up a few more mph

[Slartybartfast]

I just slow down, tailgating is litteraly a threatening behavior.

[Smashingdoozy]

I have when people do it when there's literally a passing lane if they wanted to go faster

[exitseven]

Yes, I just went on a long car ride and watching people do that to me really got me upset. I always wonder where the cops are when you need them.

[Smashingdoozy]

@exitseven I had a guy in a pick up truck do it to me once. At night. Had his high beams on right up my ass. I was blinded so I switched lanes, and he followed! So I break checked him 💅🏻 then he got angry, switched back and drove next to me yelling out his window, flipping me off. Then he got infront of me to try break check me, but yah know a very obvious move so I switched lanes. He starts driving next to me where there is no lane, still yelling and swearing. I'm on the phone to the police, I've missed my turn off because there's no way I'm going any slower than I am now. He tailgates me for about 15 min until the cops pull him over. And that is how I was almost murdered 💅🏻

[exitseven]

@Smashingdoozy damn, I hate that shit. I usually tilt my rear view mirror upwards if they are flashing high beams in my back window. I bet if you were a guy this jerk would not have the stones to give you a hard time.

[EnglishEuropean]

Damn, there's some nutcases out there.

[ronaldo75]

Small dicks. I've asked ex-girlfriends and women in general about this and it's pretty clear that men who drive aggressively, including tailgating, have a lot of penis issues.

[josephinelcajon]

Drives me nuts. They think they can make you go faster and some do or move over. The other is someone that paces beside you. You speed up they speed up preventing you from lane changes!

[doe9de]

An old trick I learned form someone is if someone is tailgating you slow down. If they continue slow down more they'll get the message.

[EnglishEuropean]

Literally the only time I might seem to be "tailgating" is when the car in front of me is going really slowly and (as usual) I don't have an opportunity to pass. But I always make sure I have space to stop if they do.

[Alex8736]

If you're driving in the left lane on the highway people must move over to the middle lane where by law in the US the left lane is for passing only. NH has a minimum speed limit cuz sometimes driving too slow can be worse than too fast. Just saying

[msc545]

You are wrong. Just saying.

[Anonymous]

Because they didn't bring enough cc to overtake and they dont realise that the guy in front of them is driving slowly because the guy behind them has demonstrated that he cannot drive.

[2log10x]

Tailgaters are annoying. But cars going really slow are even more annoying.

[Guffrus]

The reason they are going slow is because the retard behind them can't drive, so remember that next time you are tailgating someone.

[2log10x]

I never tailgate

[KrakenAttackin]

I agree. I sometimes drive a fuel tanker filled with 9,000 gallons of diesel and these fools will tailgate me. People just can't be allowed down for a second. This behavior is a character flaw.

[BeMuse]

Just slow down when they do that.

[weirdoweirdo]

Easy question. They're dumb as rocks.

[moonpie89]

Ahhh. I literally hate that

[clemdenim]

I guess they think you will go faster, i slow down

[Pterodon]

Pull over and let them pass

[Hairylegs222]

Yep, than a cop pulls them over for speeding up ahead. I'm laughing driving by 🤣

[Iron_Man]

So they can save gas and draft off of you LOL