What made the "ABC" anchor woman commit suicide?

[TonyMetal___86]

Her name is "Neena Pacholke" she's the anchor woman of Wisconsin abc morning news...

I was reading the news today and found out about her, never saw her before and don't know a thing about her cause i'm not even a U. S citizen but her story surprised me because everyone said that she's a happy girl, always smiles and positive with everyone around her...

Her family loved her, she was engaged and about to get married after 6 weeks...

They found her dead in her house from like a week ago and the police ruled out that it's a suicide and that there was no foul play!

What made a woman like that commit suicide if she had nearly a perfect life?

[Aerolyn]

Its easy to smile and act like you're okay, in this world it feels like you have to act like everything is over even if the reality is that your anything but.

I feel like it's to norm, you know what they say, fake it till you make it.

Although it feels like it's just not fake it till you're it, it's more like fake it for the rest of your damn life.


I'm not surprised by the unfortunate news, you see it time and time again, people who seem to be in an even better than you chosing to end thier own lives.

We all have our personal battles that we don't let people know about, because it's not any of thier dang business and then you got the people who don't do nothing but make you feel bad for every being sad at all.

You're pressured to be this top notch person in this world, a role model, someone that's always loved and on the top of thier game and shit.


Assuming that she probably never shared her problem with anyone, she must've had it real rough behind closed doors.

My she rest in peace.

[Aerolyn]

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So many typos

[Aerolyn]

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[TonyMetal___86]

No worries, what you said is how people are living their lives these days!
Too bad that a lot of people have double faces, no sympathy and no nothing...

When humanity loses their morals and values, that's what happens!

[MCheetah]

This woman is super young, tall, attractive, had a successful career, and was on-track to get married. I seriously doubt "suicide" was involved here. Sounds like these are some untrained small town police who can't do their jobs well, so just chalked it up to an "Oh well, suicide! LOL!" and called it a day. She just turned 27. Even if she was secretly depressed, there would have been warning signs. Either way, it's a tragic story.

Doesn't look like a "suicide" victim to me. But you never know.

[TonyMetal___86]

We can't say that the police are untrained and not doing their job well cause that will be a big issue and will cause doubts around the police as a whole!
Her friends did say that before committing suicide, they phoned her or she phoned them i don't remember but she was suicidal...

Only god knows the real truth even if she have committed suicide than why she did it?

[MrsTurkleton]

Sadly, the thing about suicide is that nobody around that person ever sees it coming.
People who are depressed do their best to hide it when they’re around other people as they don’t want to create a negative situation.

[TonyMetal___86]

True but haven't they thought that there might be someone very close to them who can help them and cheer them up which will lead to their salvation?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Things aren't always what they appear to be. People aren't always as happy as people think they are...

Depression isn't always taken as seriously as it should be..

And some people will hide that from the rest of the world

[TonyMetal___86]

Too bad cause she's only 27, from where do they get the courage and power to commit suicide and aren't they affraid of what happens next?

Also the question is: does it worth it? When the positive things in a person's life are more than the negative, why do they surrender?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Are they though? Not everyone has positives, some people do deal with more negatives.. Not everyone lives a fairytale life (is there even such a thing or is it a facade people put on?)

[TonyMetal___86]

Life is so harsh these days and beciming harder and darker, it's like we are losing all the positive things in our lives and got replaced with negative ones!

That's what happens when there's no real family, no real love and a lack of faith!

The world had changed a lot but we still can make a real family and we can love each other for real and these will be the very 1st steps to eliminate that evil darkness from our world...

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

But I did have that. And lost it

[TonyMetal___86]

You lost him physically only!
At least you had someone real who was truthful with you and loved you for real and that's a great thing, ofc we always wish for more, but at least you had someone great, better than having nothing or no one or having someone who makes you wish if you had nothing...

[BCRanger10]

Her fiancee cheated on her and broke up with her.

Besides, there is no such thing as a "perfect life". Sure, from a material standpoint (jobs, money, relationships, etc.), someone's life might appear "perfect", but material possessions aren't everything. People can still feel lonely and empty even with those things.

[TonyMetal___86]

I 100% agree with you but don't know if her boyfriend had cheated on her and broke up with her, if that's true than why all the journals and news were mentioning that she was about to get married in 6 weeks?

[BCRanger10]

According to an article I read about it, she came home and found another woman's underwear there.

[TonyMetal___86]

If that's true than some clues are emerging on the causes of her suicide...
STILL a person shouldn't commit suicide for such reasons!

[BCRanger10]

I agree. But there are bigger problems at work that would lead someone to suicide.

[Summeroflove]

Where did you hear this at? Through the grape vine? A report by someone? How do you know that.

[Summeroflove]

I found it never mind sorry. Some people just say stuff that either someone does not want out there or something that isn't totally true, if it is true at all.

[Shiface92]

I’m too transparent to hide my depression when I’m in deep depression... I show every emotion to the world…. When I’m Genuinely happy I show it, When I’m Genuinely Mad I show it, When I’m Sad I Show it…

I don’t see a reason to hide what one feels we are Human, we don’t have to be like robots….

[TonyMetal___86]

Tnx for sharing

[Summeroflove]

You're welcome

[Anonymous]

Many times. You don’t know what someone’s going through inside. Many times when someone is vulnerable about it. It makes it worse. People give them shitty advice or even look down upon them more.

It just gets worse and worse. It’s a deep dark pit. Only someone in it would ever understand.

[TonyMetal___86]

Tnx for sharing

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome

[Light909090]

Nobody made her commit suicide well I would hope not I sure as hell wouldn’t Take a bunch of pills if someone said there
Gonna Go full Tyrant on me if I didn’t do as they command.

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't think that there was someone who forced her especially the police had mentioned that there was no one with her!

One or some of her friends mentioned that before committing suicide they talked with each other and she was suicidal and that's why they called the police but it was too late...

[Light909090]

Alright then she committed suicide because that’s what she wanted to do.

[Light909090]

Hence nobody forced her if it’s what she did on her own

[TonyMetal___86]

Yes she did it on her own but her choice was very wrong, unfortunatly there was no one to stop her or to rescue her before she died

[Light909090]

Agreed

[Guy13]

That's too bad...

[TonyMetal___86]

Really bad! She's only 27 and made everyone who loved her sad and shocked!

[Guy13]

Never know what is going on behind the facade. You know…that empty hollow feeling that we’ve all felt at one time…

[TonyMetal___86]

Very true...