Today is November 11th, Single's Day! What do you think is the best thing about being single?

[gayesblog]

Both single people and people in relationship can answer this question. Everyone has been lonely at some point in their life. :)

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That’s a wonderful question.

Relationships are often thought to be the ideal destination where we all want to get and being single is rarely celebrated.

Yet, I think it’s amazing and definitely, worth celebrating!

It’s peaceful,

as you come home to yourself every day, and you feel at peace, not trying to please anyone but yourself,

It’s liberating,

In a way that, it teaches is how to deal with our lives totally alone and maybe for some people it feels sad, but in truth, it frees us from our fears, it makes us learn about our strengths, it frees us of the cage of being dependent on another human being for our strength and happiness,

It’s adventurous,

You can flirt with anyone you want,

You can go anywhere you want,

you can be anyone you want, without the fear of hurting someone, without the need to limit yourself to make someone else happy,

It gives us strength,

We are all alone in our lives,

some more, some less, but all in all, we are all we have got,

When obstacles happen in our lives, we can’t hope for another person to save us,

we learn that, we need to get up, we need to save ourselves, we need to take care of ourselves, we need to carry ourselves on our own shoulders, even if we are about to lose consciousness, we know we can’t, because we are all we’ve got.

And maybe some people might think, it’s lonely, yet I think it’s extremely useful and wonderful, as

We learn the biggest lesson of our lives:

You are your own hero and that’s how it should be.

And in the end, it makes us appreciate ourselves more,

when you know that this little body is all that you have got, you start taking care of it,

you treat yourself well,

you comfort yourself,

you start caring about yourself,

you start protecting yourself,

cheering yourself up,

motivating yourself,

having fun,

even if you are all alone

living a healthy life, because you have got to be strong,

yourself is all you’ve got and you need to make it strong and reliable,

because in the times of winds, when everyone else falls,

you’ll be standing,

because you’ve got yourself and that’s more than enough.

In the end, maybe you even become a better partner to yourself than you could ever dream of having.

And sometimes you want to thank yourself,

for finding happiness in little things,

and for being the best ever partner you have ever had.

You realize, not many people could make you feel happier than you can make yourself…

[NotInterestedSorry]

11th of November is not exactly a day this should be celebrated on when the date many countries use this date to remember those who fought in the world war 1 and 2 and those who never came home

[lilBigPotato]

No compromises that need to be made. Just living your life the way you want and do whatever you feel like

[AviatorTom]

Today is Veterans Day in the US and Remembrance Day in other countries, a day to remember those who gave their lives fighting against tyranny and fir freedom.

Whoever calls this Singles Day needs a lesson in history.

[OGname2]

Singles Day started in China I'm not mistaken. And as a Scandinavian this date isn't taken by any sort of "day" so maybe multiple things can have the same date :)))

[NotInterestedSorry]

Exactly. This exact question was also asked 1 year ago as well and the person was told the same thing that this is a day to remember those who lost their lives for us.

[NathanDavis]

more time, than the usual... to dedicate to friends and family

and new people as well

[scentoflavender]

In the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month, the fighting of world War 1 stopped. We celebrate the veterans on November 11th, and give thanks for their sacrifices. All gave some and some gave all. God bless.

[NotInterestedSorry]

Exactly this exact same question was asked a year ago and the person was told the same thing that this is a day to remember those who lost their lives so we could have freedom and here it is being asked again

[blueonblack22]

It’s not “Singles Day” it’s Veterans Day.

I am single and not a veteran. But it’s very disrespectful to veterans to make up “holidays” on their day.

I believe there is an ideological agenda behind this crap and it’s on purpose more and more nowadays.

Not making assumptions about you personally. But there is a very gross agenda behind all this crap and I will call it out. It’s wrong.

[bolverk]

The 11/11 is Armistice/Remembrance/Veterans Day depending where you are in the world commemorating all those lost in war both civilian and armed forces.

[OlderAndWiser]

No, today is Veterans' Day and no one should distract our attention from the real reason for this holiday.

[OGname2]

You're on the wold wide web. Veteran's Day is a US thing as far as I'm aware?

[NotInterestedSorry]

@OGname2 Veteran's Day is also called Remembrance Day in other countries. Almost all of the world use this day to remember those who fought in the wars and who sadly never came home

[OlderAndWiser]

@NotInterestedSorry In the US, those who died in service to out country are remembered on Memorial Day, and Veterans' Day is intended to honor ALL veterans.

[Anonymous]

This exact same question was asked exactly one year ago. How in the world is this national singles days when for most of the world its a day to remember those who fought in world war 1 and 2 and remember those who lost their lives in the battle

[JacobJordan]

It is also veterans day. A big thank you to all veterans. I hope your lives are going well! You did a fantastic job and hopefully the government is being semi helpful to you.

[Saiesh30]

Really? Lol. There's a Single 's day too? Haha! I don't think there's anything cool about being single unless you're too hyperfocused about your career. Just that for me. Else I despise every day for being single

[HaleyCatgirl]

I probably shouldn't say this considering I'm underage but masturbating and not having to worry about the other person wanting to see you every fucking second I've also never dated so I'm just assuming

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

The best thing about being single is the freedom of time. I don’t feel obligated to spend it all with someone else, I can just hang out when I want to or just spend my time on my own hobbies with no feelings of guilt or fomo

[Unycorn]

You don't need to check your timetable if you want to plan to Go out. Alone or with good friends. And stay out as long as you want. And nobody eats your food you ordered even if he/she said "I am not hungry"

[Guido]

Today is Rememberance Day and the day should not be used for any other purpose then remembering those who gave their lives so we could be free.

Anything else is an insult to veterans around the world.

[PositiveFlight]

There is nothing good about being single. Men and women are naturally meant to be together, not alone.

[Worst]

imagine disrespecting Remembrance Day like that lol

[NotInterestedSorry]

They did the same last year as well. They were also told its not a day to celebrate being single but it seem these people have zero respect

[NotInterestedSorry]

I forgot to add this exact same question was asked a year ago

[Starrrboy]

The best thing about being single is that nobody really cares about your existence, no one calls you pet names and shower you with compliments, and when you're horny you take care of it all by yourself.. It's amazing 🤣🤣...

[MemeSupreme]

it's smooth ridin

no drama or anything to worry about. i get to just chill

[Anonymous]

Tis Veteran's Day. Since when is this Single's Day? hahahah

[purplepoppy]

Being able to sleep with 6 guys in one day and not be seen as a cheat.

[glennos89]

Having no restrictions other then the ones you lay upon yourself

[Nikki1989]

There is nothing good about being single. It is a depressing way to live.

[Likes2drive]

Only thing good is that I don’t need any permission on any decisions I make or places I go, since I can come and go as I please, it’s also cheaper