Boyfriend didn't get me anything for Valentine's day :( But I want him to surprize me. Do you think he may still buy something for me?
I don't understand how someone at the age of 41 can be so childish and shallow. First of all, you don't know if he got you anything and it's not even Valentine's Day yet.
Secondly, even if he didn't get you anything out didn't mean he doesn't love you and I'm sure he shows that he does everyday.
Lastly, love is not about what he buys for you or what you can get out of him. Love is selfless, it's what you do for the benefit of the relationship and each other without expecting anything specifically (other than love) in return. Love is work, hard work and it's a choice to get though it's challenges with your partner regardless of what life throws at you. These days, people are so quick to leave at the first sign of struggle or conflict that most people will never know what it's like to truly love. If you have found someone that chooses to stick with you regardless of how materialistic you seem to be then I suggest to hold on to him and appreciate him for who he is, not for what he gets you on a stupid meaningless holiday.
I wish you best of luck and hope that you realize what you have is much more important than anything he could buy you.
#1 you said you wanted a surprise so maybe he does have something and is going to surprise you.
#2 does he have the money to get you material possessions
#3 valentines isn’t about giving candy and trinkets, it’s about giving yourself. The candy and trinkets is just a way big companies manipulate people into buying useless garbage they otherwise wouldn’t want.
#4 he might still get you something if he hasn’t already.
Anyways I hope you have a good day.
@twinson - obviously you know little to nothing about Valentine's day
1) Valentine's Day is Feb 14th. It's the 11th.
2) You give & get gifts ON Feb 14th NOT before
3) If he bought you something he's NOT gonna tell you. It RUINS the gift/surprise
Fourth Valentine's Day is for gift giving between lovers. Instead of being a self-centered whiny thing why don't you go find a gift for him.
If you don’t bring it up, you most likely won’t get anything again.
One way to bring it up is to say “What do you want for Valentine’s Day?” That will start the conversation about it and you can let him know what you would like to receive.
Opinion
23Opinion
There's more than two days until then. Like, 60 hours. You yourself said you wanted it to be a surprise. You need to be patient and wait for Valentine's day.
1. It’s still not Valentines
2. Maybe he is planning something big like a fancy dinner.
3. February is not over and he has plenty of time to do something for you just don’t expect it to be materialistic thing about thought rather than value
Is a gift really that important? Am I weird for not associating presents and gifts with love? On top of that, who the hell gives a present for valentines day NOT on valentines day? Third question... You want him to surprise you, but you're spoiling the potential surprise with this behavior... I don't know... stop overthinking it. It's just a day where companies feed on love to get products sold.
Hm I don’t know maybe I’m wrong but isn’t gifts given on Valentine’s Day like February 14?
Maybe you can wait
How did he do it last year? If you guys were together
Even if he doesn’t do anything don’t take it heart really. See how he acts with to you daily does he love you he expresses it etc. V day after all it’s business to sell items.
Or maybe he takes you out to restaurant to eat on feb 14.
um you're suppose to get a gift BEFORE valentines day? not how that works. i'm not sure why you should even know if he got you something or not until the day of valentines day... if you're so worried about it, i think you two should have a talk about your relationship.
Honestly I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. My past relationships I've never gotten anything so I don't expect anymore.
Why don't you get something for him
Valentine's is overrated for one. You guys are celebrating every time you meet. Second, wait until that day.
Third.. what are you getting him?
But it isn't Valentine's Day yet... so wtf are you talking about?
It’s not even the day yet. There’s no reason to say that just yet.
Valentine isn't a measurement of love. You've been together a while. Valentine shouldn't break what you have.
I bet you like the sex though. That's all that matters
Your age is 41 not 14, so stop acting like little children. Be more mature
Maybe if he has in the past.. if not then no lol
You were expecting it early? Relax a bit. Guys are usually going to do it on the day.
It's 3 days away. How do you know he didn't get you anything? Isn't that the point to surprise you.
How do you know he didn't get you anything? So you have access to all of his secret hiding places? Lol
Why does it even matter? Are you sure you're 40 years of age?
The clock is ticking. If I were you I would be paranoid as hell 😱
U know the only gift u should be really proud of is to have him in your life
Be patient. It's not even the thirteenth, yet. If it doesn't happen, whoopty doo, it's one day. Not like your anniversary.
Is that all you care about from him? Getting gifts?
