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Mean What You Say and Say What You Mean
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She thought he was saying and he thought she meant!
Confused! Are men and women truly from different universes? Are both genders retarded and do not want to take responsibility for their actions? Let’s dispel the misunderstandings between men and women.
Often when dating a woman, a man’s formula is very simple- A + B = Sex. This is very common for a man who cares about a woman. Do not be confused if you are not his main woman. He will treat you differently, so it your responsibility to make sure you are point.
The universal No, No’s
1. Do ask him if he miss you? Don’t ask, stupid questions
2. If you are not ready, don’t talk sex! It’s like setting the stage to romance.
3. Don’t introduce him to your children until you are sure. You do not want a man to form any bonds with your children. It becomes harder to let him go.
A man could infer a woman is playing games, because women’s formula is usually a little more complicated. Women check men out for multiple unknown factors such as, romance, appearance, financial stability, safety and intelligence. This is how diverse most women are in choosing a man. She could have a man who meets her sexually, and another man who stimulate her mentally. Which are you?
This formula never changes for both men and women, so how can you avoid being caught up in this situation?
Here are 5 ways, which can help you avoid confusion in an potential relationship.
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Top 5 Misleading things people do that causes misunderstandings in relationship
1. Respect – No Booty Calls - Treat a person exactly how you want to be treated. No late night phone calls. Anything after 12:00 A.M. can be construed as a “booty call.” It infers you are interested in the person you are calling. Don’t do it under any circumstances! It is like giving someone the go ahead. Stop a man if he disrespects your home and let a woman know it’s unacceptable, if she calls late.
2. No Late Night Visits - If you are new to the relationship and you are just dating, no late night visitations. Do not go over his house for no reason after 9:00 PM. If you are at his home or vice versa do not stay in his home until an inappropriate time. If he ask you to stay later because he is enjoying your company or wants to watch a movie. Decline the offer! Leave at a reasonable and respectful hour and maintain respected. It eliminates the thoughts of spending the night or any sexual activity. If you are questioned about staying, be honest about your feelings. If your not interested in sex, let him know. It’s not about hurting his feelings, but about protecting yourself.
3. Expense - Dating Rules - Do not allow a man to cover all of your dating expenses. It is a man’s way of investing in you, which could turn into ownership. If necessary, be willing to pay your own expenses. If you are not interested, don’t continue dating for the sake of going out and not spending your money. If you are dating multiple people, this could turn into a dangerous situation. You do not want to have any excuses or feel the need to defend yourself, because he is spending too much money on you.
4. No Games Playing or Groping – If he paws on you for intimacy, kiss or grope you for affection without your consent stop him immediately. Shut it down his advancements. Be honest, about where you are in your courting stage of your relationship. Let him know if you are not ready to move forward. Do not put yourself in situation where you unintentionally hurt someone’s feeling. This could lead to unforeseen harm, such as rape or physical abuse. Do not play games.
5. No Physical Intimacy - If you are interested in furthering your relationship do not allow someone to cross your personal boundaries, before you are ready. That means no massages, caressing, pecks on the lips, hand holding, or slaps on the butt. Why? Allowing someone to enter into your personal space creates an avenue of vulnerability. It sends the wrong message. It may someone to feel they have rights and additional privileges. Avoid intimate physical contact!
For additional information regarding various relationship issues, please feel free to tune into TruVue Radio on the Blog Talk Radio network via internet. All shows are archived at www.BlogTalkRadio.com/TruVueRadio. All shows air every Thursday at 5:00 PM PST.
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