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Does He Like Me? 32 Ways to Answer The All Important Question!

 
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“Does He Like Me” seems to be holding the fort in being one of the most popular questions, still. So I thought I add all the little things a guy would do, the subtle hints he shows and the silliness he displays if he likes a girl.

If you answer any of the questions with Yes, your guy in question likes you whether he is a friend, a crush, a classmate, or a total stranger. The more Yes’s you have, the more certain you can be that he likes you.

Does he try to make you laugh in any way such as telling jokes, being witty, being silly or even tickling you?

Does he attempt to touch you like picking a hair string on your shirt, accidentally brushing his arm against your arm, tickling you, leaning on you, wrestling you, playing with your hair, poking you, tapping you, grabbing your arm, offering you a shoulder rub or even shoving you around and punching you (friendly of course)?

Does he often smile at you, laugh at your jokes even if they are silly?

Does he smell and look good around you, with his hair made (even if it is messy, it is on purpose)?

Does he sometimes act strange or silly to get your attention?
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Does he shoot a rubber band or throw a paper wad at you?

Does he not want to be seen with you, so people including his friends won’t think he likes you?

Does he sometimes feel weird around you since someone asked him if he likes you?

Does he attempt to randomly start a conversation with you using conversation starters like “What’s up”, “Hey” or “So,…”?

Does he get jealous of you if he sees you talking to or hanging out with a guy friend?

Does he offer you help with homework, carrying your things, or any other important or just random tasks?

Does he call you “Cutie”, “Sweetie” or with a nick name?

Does he often find ways to be near you, around you, to spend time with you, to talk to you about anything or to hang out with you like walking with you even though he has to be somewhere else?

Does he share common hobbies and interest with you and talk about them too, like his favorite movies, books, or sports?

Does he blush or smile when he sees you or when a friend mentions your name in your absence?

Does he look at you from a distance when you are looking away and then shyly looks down or away when you catch him looking at you?

Does he have your phone number, and does he call you or text you regularly or send you emails and IMs?

Does he get things for you or buy you stuff?

Does he flirt with you, tease you and even say something mean, too?

Does he shyly look at you or stare at you when he walks by you and maybe even smile or wink at you?

Does he look deep into your eyes when you talk to him and sometimes blushes?

Does he sometimes become shy and nervous around you but mostly act sweet, nice, gentle, flirty and playful towards you?

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Does he ever rub his arm or fix his hair when he talks to you?

Does he act clueless and pretend he doesn’t know anything or cracks jokes and even try to change the conversation when his friends are talking to you?

Does he talk about you with his friends?

Does he look at you, then smile and then look away for no apparent reason?

Does he seem relaxed, listening to you, leaning toward you, touching you on the arm or shoulder when you talk to him?

Does he seem to act normally when in a group of people, but seem kind of nervous, shy and quiet when he is alone with you?

Does he try to impress you by dressing well, and presenting himself with his best behavior?

Do his friends seem to be nicer to you and talk to you more often than usual?

Do his friends ask you if you like him?

And last but not least, do you or any of your friends think he likes you?


How did you do, and how many Yes’s did you have? I am sure you did well. Keep in mind that some guys will like you, while some others will like you even more. But the more important thing is to see if he likes you for who you are and not try to change you.

And you should not try to change him, either. Even more, you shouldn’t change your ways for him. Otherwise, what is the point? He should go find someone else if that’s what he wants and trust me there are enough people for each one of us on earth that you will find someone who likes you as much as you like him.

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  • A month ago
    i had a lot of yes to these ways
  • 2 months ago
    And what if most of these things he did, had a wonderful first date - held hand, cuddled me and kissed me passionately, and after that date he is as quiet as a mouse - almost as if I don't exist anymore. What does that mean? Can he still be interested? Does he think things might be moving too quickly? Says everything is OK between us, but I'm on the 'ignore' :( :( :(
  • 11 months ago
    If a boy talks and laughs with a girl does he have a crush on her?
    If a boy sees the girl with her BFFs and he barges In and one of her friends says if you want to stay you have to sing something and he does then drops something, gets it then sits next to the girl does he like her? Also if he tells her a secret could he have a crush on her? Please someone else comment and answer my questions.
  • Over a year ago
    I could've answered "yes" to a lot of these before, but 6mths later? "no." I think I blew it, my body language didn't reflect my true feelings at all. I am an attractive woman but(I was so nervous and scared, I pretended to NOT like him(not intentionally, I was terrified!). Where he once glanced/stared over(and looked away if I looked back), he now treats me as if I am invisible, no acknowledgement, NADA(I simply don't EXIST anymore!). I think he is looking at another woman now, Gosh I suck :
  • Over a year ago
    I had a lot of yes's also but the thing is is that he has never asked to hang out with me and he doesn't text regulary, he only texts me when he is bored, he even says, "Hey what's up, I'm bored!" That's where I'm confused.
  • Over a year ago
    yes I have a lot of 'yes's' but we are just freinds...
    i wasn't thinking about anyone in particular when I started reading this, there name just kept popping in my head because they do some/most of those things..
  • Over a year ago
    I have 24 yeses.
  • Over a year ago
    I think the problem is that guys use these tactics to get the girl. The girl will only go for him and like him back if he does not hit on her definitely until later. You can only win a girl over if she spends time WONDERING IF HE LIKES YOU.
    So if he does this, the guy probably likes the girl.
    Also, great question! I feel like "does he like me" is the ONLY question girls ask on here to!
  • Over a year ago
    I got 85%... I hope he makes a move soon :P
  • Over a year ago
    It sucks when you can answer yes to most of these..but so could like 5 other girls with the same guy... >:\
  • Over a year ago
    i still doubt if he likes me.. I am not sure though.. but I guess he does..haha I hope so.. because I'm so into him..
  • Over a year ago
    I laughed out loud at pianojess's comment
  • Over a year ago
    i got a LOT of yes answers. ha ha TOO BAD he is engaged.
  • Over a year ago
    i think he doesn't like me anymore..he used to call me sweetie or honey but I called him yesterday and we talked about meeting tomorrow and he didn't call me that. and then today he didn't show. figures..i think its because I asked him if he was having sex with other women too...i can't really see why thatd make him not like me tho..i guess he just doesnt. or he thinks I'm not interested in more than sex because of the way I asked...
  • Over a year ago
    bout time someone posted something like this!
  • Over a year ago
    I got about 95% of this list and the guy said he didn't like me! lol
  • Over a year ago
    I think the most important way to tell if a guy likes you or not is to see if the does these things to other girls. If you're not the only one, then maybe he likes more than one girl, including you, or he just likes to flirt and means nothing by it.
  • Over a year ago
    yes to most!
  • Over a year ago
    I got Yes to all ... but I guess its not true because he just took me for granted and dump me... well.. I guess it depends to the person///
  • Over a year ago
    this is so not true because I asked the guy I like if he liked me and he said no and he likes some1 else, so unless he wuz lieing (icouldnt tell because we were txting) this article is such a lie!
  • Over a year ago
    nice article! now we need a list for "32 ways to answer whether SHE likes you" lol
  • Over a year ago
    I answered yes to 27 of the questions. I was thinking of my best guy friend when I answered them. Does it make a difference if it's your best friend who does this?
  • Over a year ago
    i have a guy that sometimes stares and me and bumps into me on purpose or call me strange things or whenever I look somwhere near him he does somthing strange and then I'm like O_O then he smiles big and whenever we line up he gets SUPER close up behind me. Does that mean he likes me- likes me A LOT or is in love with me____ or he's just a creep
  • Over a year ago
    I had a guy who did almost all of the above...but I think he just wants sex....so...what's up with that?
  • Over a year ago
    I got "yes" to all of them. If this is all true, I think he likes me :)))))
  • Over a year ago
    I got 27 out of 32. Is this a good thing?
  • Over a year ago
    I got 18 YES. Are they enough ?
    Cause I still not sure if he just being nice and friendly or like me.
  • Over a year ago
    What if he does almost all of these and hasn't asked you out?
  • Over a year ago
    Ok but I have read better answers on here. 1-10 =. 6.5 Thanks for writing :-)
  • Over a year ago
    I had 17 yes's. These were all signs I had been spending hours on end analyzing. Thanks!
  • Over a year ago
    This was AMAZINGLY helpful. I'm blind in this kinda thing
  • Over a year ago
    This is awesome! Thanks! A lot of helpful stuff I didn't know! Of course there are little exception mainly with close friends (then it's a toss up between close friend or maybe being more).
  • Over a year ago
    19
  • Over a year ago
    Wow I got 3 pr 4 of these as I don't know and 2 as no not ba di think he likes me
  • Over a year ago
    Great list bro, wow I didn't notice that we make it so obvious sometimes lol
  • Over a year ago
    This caught my eye and I am glad I read it :)
  • Over a year ago
    You do know how to ask the right questions keep it up!!
  • Over a year ago
    Wow I think this boy in my class likes me
  • Over a year ago
    What’s up”, “Hey” or “So, ”?" Doesn't EVERYONE SAY that?

    "Does he look deep into your eyes when you talk to him and sometimes blushes? "
    What if he has dark skin ?lol

    "Does he not want to be seen with you ?" HOw would you guys talk?
    "ooking away and then shyly looks down or away when you catch him looking at you?"
    What f he does not look away?

    "tease you and even say something mean, too?"
    Why would he say something MEAN? - Kind of makes it look like he does not LIKE you - no?

  • Over a year ago
    Very insightful, thank you :)
  • Over a year ago
    Whoa monkey, nice list man! With the massive amounts of ladies thanking you, it's obvious you were spot on the money.
  • Over a year ago
    My guy friends has done everything out of this list but five things....but while doing this he was "talking" to other girls and walk one to her class even though he still did these things to me. Is he serious? By the way he's shorter than me.
  • Over a year ago
    Ha some players are good at pretending to do these things also =/
  • Over a year ago
    Oops. Heh. Seeing this list made me notice that a guy and I were flirting more seriously than I thought.
  • Over a year ago
    Yeah...... this doesn't really work.

    You should've kept it to a few critical questions and concepts. This is really all over the place and as a result.

    I'd say, keep it to:
    -Does he seem to spend more time around you than you think he should?
    -Is he seemingly unable to ignore you?
    -Does he act different around you?

    Most of those have something to do with one of those three, but not everyone reacts in the same way.
  • Over a year ago
    I got 7 yes. I know it could be more but that's good enough for me. Since I got 7 should I maybe ask him if he likes me. I just want to be sure and all. But fantastic article!!!
  • Over a year ago
    A guy can do all of these signs and more than not he likes you. But to actually ask you out is a different story. My guy friend has done all of these signs and I kissed him twice on two different occassions, yet he's still yet to tell me he likes me or wants to date me. sometimes guys can see it as no big deal flirting with you. They may in fact like you as a person but like some other girl more. Which is sorta the current situation I'm in.
  • Over a year ago
    Actually, I went back and 17 of them apply to me (:
  • Over a year ago
    I got about 12 of these (:
  • Over a year ago
    Haha! now I'm sure enough he LIKES ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Over a year ago
    OMG He Likes ME YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm SOOOOO happy, because I really like him. that's sooo helpful thank u
  • Over a year ago
    This article was really helpful. except this one guy I like acts so different when he's in public and when he's texting me. its like he has to different personalities!!!
  • Over a year ago
    That helped a lot like no joke thank you so much!! Your amazing!
  • Over a year ago
    This really helped thanxs
  • Over a year ago
    Dude. I said yes to like 27 of these... Can you like read my question I've posted, and tell me what you think I should do. I think you can probably check it oit through my profile or something. Please!
  • Over a year ago
    I got about 14 or 15.....some of them though, like looking nicer for me and such I'm not sure about since I didn't really know him until about a month and a half ago, hah. He does always look nice though, so if we include ones like that in then I have about 20. This is a great article. =)
  • Over a year ago
    I don't know. Many guys do things like that. Doesn't mean they LIKE you. Like as a friend maybe.
  • Over a year ago
    Very helpful, thanks. great job!!
  • Over a year ago
    Wow, my guy friend does most of these things.. but he has a gf... and I met her... one Q! does this really mena he is being a gentlemen or does he really like me??
  • Over a year ago
    Most of my answers are yes,...but how come he never told me he likes me?
    he become cold now,..by not texting me anymore but he used to stares at me whenever I am around.
    still confusing though
  • Over a year ago
    Yeah..I'm not so sure here...
    My guy friend does all of these things, and yet, he has a gf...so....

    I think he's just being a caring friend.... :)
  • Over a year ago
    Aside from the throwing a wad of paper at me, most of these applied. However, how can you be sure that he's not just being a gentleman with the intentions of a platonic relationship? Women can read into things that really aren't there. I don't want to get my hopes up, only to be rejected by a shy guy! That's like a double rejection. :sniffs:

    But, I thoroughly enjoyed reading your article!
  • Over a year ago
    7 or 8 of these are somewhat true for me, but they don't all happen together, or even really often. So does it actually mean anything, then?
  • Over a year ago
    Wow...
    i can name a few guy friends who fit some of these statements...
  • Over a year ago
    Thanks!
  • Over a year ago
    Thank you for this! Maybe now we'll begin to see less and less of the redundant "Does he like me?" questions that in some way or another, end up being the same as the last lmao.
  • Over a year ago
    This was very helpful!
  • Over a year ago
    This was nice. thanks.
  • Over a year ago
    I really enjoyed this article a lot. I think that it has great advice. Although, it does have some exceptions. I mean, I've been best friends with the same guy for over ten years, and neither of us want anything more. I still think this is an excellent article.
  • Over a year ago
    What if a guy does all of this, but then out of no where says he cares about you but only as a friend? Then what? What's that mean?
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