I'm compiling a list of all the characteristics and traits of behavior that makes a guy appear like a creepy guy. It can be something they do in bars or during the day time, whatever creeps you out about a guy.
I think there are a lot of nice guys out there who are unaware that they are coming off as creeps. So, I think it'd be useful to have a list of all the creepy behavior patterns so that us males can avoid the "creep" factor:) So, lets hear it ladies!
When a guy is too persistent and tries to be pushy and won't take no for an answer. When he knows your life story and you don't even know his name. When he seems to be lurking everywhere you are, even in the most unexpected places. When he just stares and doesn't smile or say anything. When he calls you and you never gave him your number. When he talks about you having his babies and you hardly know him.
The guy keeps making jokes or suggestions about the lady kissing him or being intimate with him. That's not cool or cute. And to me, it's offensive and will always guarantee that he won't be getting any anyway from ME!
Here's a perfect example of a creepy guy, I was at the store with my lady friend and we were standing in line and in front of us was this smoking hot brunette, I of course didn't say anything about her because I was with a girl. Well the guy the check out guy sees the brunette has cookie mix and a lint roller, and he goes what kind of cookies are you making and she said something like chocolate chip and then the guy said well I hope your not going to use the lint roller to make the cookies, at this point I was thinking why the heck would you say that man, I seriously was about to bust out laughing. She didn't laugh she just went ummmm no, and then I could see it in her face she just wanted to get the hell outta there, and the girl I was with when we left goes wow that guy was creepy. It just depends on how you interact with women. If that was me I would have said something like oh your making cookies tonight, and if she said yeah I would have said something like well so you going to invite me over to help you make cookies? By doing that your not being a creeper your flirting with her and who knows she might even say yes, hey it could happen it's happened to me before.
Lol all men are creeps to someone or another, it all just depends on the woman and the situation your in, men have to try and understand the woman and try to talk about her interests as well as your own but not to much, don't be to much of a come on that's a real put off for a lot of women, just be yourself and do what you want to do.if your still a creep to the lady then, then your either 1,really are creepy or 2 she's not the one for you
Understanding social situations, the social norms or "feeling rules" (you sociology majors out there) that differ from each scenario will help not make you "that-guy. "
Also understanding who you are talking to and be able to communicate appropriately.
The list is going to be endless and if you are a guy who needs to read about "what to do not to be creepy," you are creepy.
For example: if you are that guy who's wearing a "real men wear pink" shirt at a dive bar, You are the creepy guy but if you're at a college frat party. You're just another douche, not creepy.
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
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Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
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