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Girls, how often do you want your guy to call you?

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Thanatos (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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Alright ladies, here's a fun one.

How often do you want your guys calling you? I've had girls who specifically asked me to call them every day or others say any more than once every 3+ days is clingy. So what do you think and why? I've also had girls who would tell me once a day and then saying I was calling too often (what they asked) or girls who said once every few days and got upset that I didn't call them enough (once every 3 days or so). Any idea on why that is?

Update: Ok, maybe I should have been more specific. How many times do you want him calling you if he doesn't text, or doesn't have it, and doesn't see you more than 2 times a week or just on weekends?    3 months ago

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One or more times a day.

Once every 2-3 days.

Once every 4-5 days.

Once every 6 days.

Once every 7or more days.
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broken-love16
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broken-love16 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
once a day is enough.just to know if he is okay or no.& one text before I go to bed.just to be sweet & have a smile in my face before I close my eyes.
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anonymousashley
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anonymousashley (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
I want to have some form of communication with my guy at least once a day. Whether its a text or something else, just seeing him. I at least want him to call me like every other day.
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lalalove
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lalalove (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I like to be able to speak to my boyfriend (via whatever is convenient) once a day. Just enough to know that he's at least thinking about me, it can even be a quick text "hey", I just want to know that he still cares.
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jaclynjune16
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jaclynjune16 (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
a call once a day would be good :)
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Supergirltwizzle
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Supergirltwizzle (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
he if text me often then he doesn't have to call but maybe every other to every 3days. That seems reasonable?
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xxxmegan
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xxxmegan (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
In my personal view,I'm one of those people who are annoyed by calls and constant texts. So ask how much they like contacting right away so you don't mess up! :]
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Question Asker Haha, I do, I'm just curious what females think in general. - 3 months ago

MoonPrincess123
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MoonPrincess123 (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
I want my boyfriend to call me at least once a day. Even if it's just for 5 mins to say they're thinking about me or just to say good night.

I've been in a long distance relationship before and I really pushed the call once a day. Specially if we never saw each other. lol. For some people, it really does depend on how often they want to talk or personal option.
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irish-girl-08
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irish-girl-08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
well any realtionship I've had the fella has always texted me everyday or rung me but id be happy with every 2-3days if we see each other often but if we didn't then I would want him to text me at least everyday
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Okay. seriously, I would prefer a guy call me once every day (and no more) or once every other day. Now if I didn't see him everyday, I would want the first option. But more than once a day is just clingy. Once every 3+ days is saying you're not interested, and we wouldn't want that, now would we?
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
at the moment my guy is calling me once a day for maybe 2 hours. but I guess its only that often and that long because we don't live in the same country so we couldn't be together during the day.

when we would live in the same country I guess every 2-3 days would be enough
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dancedance-goodtimes
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dancedance-goodtimes (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
everyday if he doesn't text you or see you much, its nice to hear from him
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rainbowsmell
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rainbowsmell (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Hmmm a call in the evening? ^_^
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ALWAYSclassy
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ALWAYSclassy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
We should talk once a day or at least every 2/3 days. I don't like being attached at the hip, I like to do my own thing sometimes, but at least talk to me!
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Kimberly-lover
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Kimberly-lover (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
I love to talk to whoever I'm dating but, if I know guys they will get annoyed if their girl is too clingy.
I know this because I learned it the hard way. I just want him to text at least before bed and the occasional phone call to say goodnight in a more personal way than just a plan old text.
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khamilton
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khamilton (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
I want to talk to him every day or every 2 days depending on if I've seen him or not but communication is key to a good relationship my ex never called he would say he call Monday and call wed you just don't do that any way so if a girl says a couple of days go in between
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RedRoan311
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RedRoan311 (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
I talk to my boyfriend daily and see him at least every other day :) My family makes fun of us, saying we're attached at the hip. He texts me throughout the day (while he's at school) and calls me after school. We never seem to run out of things to talk about.
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