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Do Females just want attention???

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FranFig21 (Age:25 to 29)     When: 3 months ago
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Are there times when a female will hang around a guy lot, show them they are interested, knowing that they will not mess with them? Will they just be with a guy just to boost their ego?

I am in a situation where this this girl who showed interest in me and once she showed this interest in me, I showed interest in her. However, I feel like recently she stopped showing interest in me and I told her that If she doesn't like me anymore that she should tell me so I could stop talking to her, however, she doesn't tell me? Is it because if she tells me that I will stop chasing after her, therefore not inflate her ego anymore. Keep in mind this women is 31 and I am 26, so maybe the thrill of a young guy going after her is too enjoyable for her to stop?

Thanks in Advance?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Not all girls are like that.I think she likes you too.maybe she thinks or worries about your age difference. and she tries to forget you
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Question Asker I think that's part of it. She also has 3 kids. I also think she just enjoys leading guys on cause she was in a terrible marriage and her husband made her feel like crap, so she needs an ego boost and now she is talking to someone else(younger than I am and he has a nice car). Although, I think she may like me because when she was using me(that's what I feel) she kissed 2 or three times but things in her life prevented her from continuing it, so I don't know what to think - 3 months ago

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S8tr1234 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
i don't think that she's just out for attention. as kittycat86 said, maybe she's interested in more than flirting. the reason why she's not talking to you is not because she's trying to play hard to get. I think that she was hoping that you'd make a move on her. maybe she's trying to see if you're interested in her in more than just a platonic way. whatever it is, she's definitely testing the waters and is being cautious about it too as she doesn't want to make a fool out of herself. maybe this is the first time for her to be flirting with someone younger and it's exciting to have young blood arouse her senses. maybe she doesn't want to reply because she's too embarrassed by her behaviour towards you. it could be that she just wanted to flirt with you but not do anything else. it could be a number of things. you have 2 ways of dealing with this.

1) you can stop talking to her and just flat out ignore. it's mean and rude but if she's not giving you any signals after all your effort then she's not interested in more than flirting. in which case, she's not worth it. but if she is interested, then she'll cave in. no one likes to be ignored. so I'm sure it'll bother her when you start paying attention to other women. try making a bit jealous. let her approach you first, and when she does, be frank with her. no use in beating around the bush as it's obviously getting a tad bit annoying.

2) you can just confront her in person. tell her what's on your mind and ask her what's on hers. lay all your cards on the table and clear the air. if the results work to your favour then see how things go from there. if not, then discontinue flirting with her as she's obviously just doing it for attention. it'll get annoying and will only waste your time when you could be focusing your attention on someone else.

with that said, I hope that you'll be able to figure out what you want out of this.

cheers
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i have been one person who lead a guy on before even though I didn't like him I just done it for the attention and because it made me feel wanted at the time because nobody else was showing interest! when he would say do you actually like me or what I would say yeah knowing I should be honest and say no! but I couldn't stop myself it was hard to! it was a very mean thing to do and I do regret it and will never do it again but my point is there is girls out there that will just want attention not all girls but there is definitely a good few
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kittycat86 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
maybe this woman, wants more than just the exchange of flirting, or it could be that she feels unsure of you and your abilty to be on her level, my sis is in the same situation she's in love with him, but she knows deep inside they can never really connect on the same level and there she is unsure of the whole relationship all together. Its really entirely up to here, she a lot to lose then you. For example if you guys got together and you left, then she would the "old" woman who can't keep a man (at any age) but then on the other hand, You could really keep her optimism up because of the age difference, some woman like that they can attract younger men,. but like a said it's up her if she wants you?
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Just-A-Random-Guy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I agree with knight, seems as if she is just making herself feel younger by having a younger guy attracted to her.
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aussieknight (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Sounds like she is feeding off of the attention. she feels better about herself because she is still attractive to men young and old and can string them along.

might be better to end it. your choice
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