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Any good tips on getting back with ex wife?

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ralph72 (Age:30 to 35)     When: 5 months ago
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I really love her married 10 years have two kids . I tell her I love her and she says ok . Then a couple of days ago you may love me but I don't love you anymore I still care about you . Then today I asked her do you want me to stop saying I love you and she said yes then I asked her do you want me to stop loving you she said yes, I said I will stop saying I love you but I will not stop loving you . What should I do and what does this mean help . She divorced me and I did not want the divorce . She has this one guy lives next door and my kids hate him . This guy is a real dork . He know we were married and he took my wife away . She cheated on me with him . I found out about it then my wife wanted a divorce help

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prettyinpink4136 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
I'm so sorry, You should have to love someone who doesn't appreciate it. Look, keep loving your kids like you do everyday, THEY ARE WHO YOU NEED TO BE TELLING YOU LOVE THEM EVERYDAY. Not the skank who cheated on such a great guy. Keep your head up high, and remember life will go on. Get out their and mingle, stop trying to patch things up with the ex, because she obviously moved on, and you can too.

Just look at it this way. There's always a brand new day, ether rain or shine, but as your still living on this earth don't waste your time, because what's meant to happen is what's meant to happen, stop lingering on the past, cause THEIRS ALWAYS A BRAND NEW DAY ahead of you, life's a journey so start appreciating the finer things in life, try something new, take your kids to the park, meet someone new, read a good book, take a vacation to yourself, buy clothes for you. Just love yourself.
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Acuzio (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
She sounds like someone who doesn't deserve your love . Continue supporting your children, but begin to distance yourself emotionally from her . She'll never love you like the way she loved you before . Something has changed her, and now she's a different person . It's unfortunate, but that happens sometimes .

There's nothing you can do to convince her to get back with you . The only way to heal the pain that this knowledge might cause is to move on and find other people who are more deserving of your affection .
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SemiShy (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
Dude, you may feel that you love her now, but give it some time and you'll see that she doesn't deserve your love ! Think about, when she cheated on you, she knew exactly what she was risking . She didn't think about the effects that she would have on the most important people she will ever know, her family .
Now, I know you are thinking, "Pfft, what does this kid know, he's only 16 . ", and I also know that this isn't the answer you were looking for, but once your ex-wife realizes that she left the best man she'll ever know for some douche bag, I almost guarantee you that she will be begging you for forgiveness . Also, she'll probably feel like an idiot once your children grow up and start asking her why she married "The Dork" and left you .
Oh, and remember, time heals all wounds .
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