Three months ago was when my heart got broken, my ex’s mom wouldn’t allow us see to see each other. He argued with her constantly about me, she didn’t like me, but that’s just a completely different story. He didn’t sense the deep feelings he had for me any longer. But, he also cared about me enough and stayed up all night up until 6 in the morning because I had been shedding tears all night, I was texting him, and I had missed calls up until 5:45 A.M. I haven’t talked to him in 2 ½ months, ever since I blocked his number, I couldn’t under go the pain and the deep feelings that he no longer shared with me anymore.
Since he “got sick of missing me” and since “he didn’t feel the same” I contain the wonder to speculate what would happen if I saw him once more. I mean I miss him like crazy, but don’t overlook what I’m saying; I am familiar that we might not be destined for each other. I understand that there is a guy for me out there but…back to what I was saying.
What would he do if he saw me again? The last time we were in each other's company I went to his house, he walked directly over to me immediately and I hugged him so tight because I hadn’t seen him it what gave the impression like forever (2 weeks) and he started kissing me and pushing me up against the kitchen counters and we ended up kissing all night at the same time “watching a movie” it was a typical night for us. I refer to “typical” meaning amazing, but normal for us.
His dad caught us making out in the living room I was on top of him at the time and so we weren’t able to see each other. He wasn’t very happy with us, but my ex tried making out with me once more and I said no I don’t want to upset your dad anymore. He understood and he walked me out the door because I was leaving and kissed me goodbye, but it was hard for him to let me go.
One week passed by and he asked his dad if he could spend some time at my house and his dad said, “no I don’t want you two kissing.” My ex freaked out at his dad and told his brothers sarcastically that they can’t kiss until they’re married and at least 30. He was just bummed. A week passed, I was busy with my sports and he was with his and we barely talked on the phone it was pretty much just a text messaging relationship for that 7 days, and he broke it off with me on that Saturday. He “got sick of missing me” and he just “didn’t feel the same anymore.”
This means that the love died off between us. I’m wondering, although I’m still keeping myself occupied, what would happen if he saw me again. Would the memories that we had together possibly flood into his mind? Would he perhaps want me back, or happen to consider it? If you have a response like “time will heal” or “just hold on more guys will come” I don’t need to hear that, I have that in my head already. I want different pieces of advice right now for the reason that this is tugging on my heart, so if anyone knows how to respond this with knowledge or experience, please do.
Don't worry I'm not going to tell you all these thing you don't want to hear, not because you don't but because it's just not the right words I want tot say well from my short experience I think that guys are unpredictable so you would never really know what would happen if you guys see each other again but most of all I want you to put in consideration that texting is sweet and all ( for myself I LOVE it) but to be honest you can't tell much more than the words from it! to talk to someone really means to see his facial expressions, body gestures and so on. and your boyfriend seems to have a lot of pressure at home, may be for now he wants to avoid the problems with them that's why he choose text messaging you won't be able to tell how much he's suffering, or he can hide it and best way to know what really gonna happen is to wait and see, it might be all pressure at home that will vanish as soon as he sees you, or may be his family is way more convincing than anyone can think! and I think a guy who went against his mother for his girl once can do it twice so I'm sure he will want you back if he sees you again, it might actually give him some strength to say no and stand up stronger for this relationship! i hope that my answer was helpful =)
I'm going to see him this Friday, my friend is going to have his twin brother and the rest of his friends come along so my ex is basically going to be there since all his friends are going to, we're going hot tubing and we're probably just going to watch a movie and hang out. Any suggestions or ideas that will help? - 2 months ago
Answerer
Just make sure to make it obvious that you still want him back, don't flirt too much just be yourself around him and try to make your friends give you a space just the 2 of you, so that he doesn't have any pressure and he can just act spontaneously and talk to you don't try to act like the strong girl, and don't act too weak and desperate - 2 months ago
My boyfriend is seeing his ex (of 3 years) this weekend at a party,im really nervous, what should I watch out for and how should I act towards her, he...
View Answers
I am going to one of my best friends wedding in May . My ex and the girl he cheated on me with will be going also . This will be hard for me . Should...
View Answers
(Age:Under 18)
When: 3 months ago
Site Links
About GirlsAskGuys
GirlsAskGuys Widgets
Help Us Improve!
