Four months ago=got dumped Ex’s mom got in the way. They fought constantly; different story. He didn’t sense the deep feelings he had for me any longer. Although, he cared about me enough to stay up until 5 in the morning because I had been crying all night, I was texting him. I had missed calls up until 5:45 A.M. I haven’t talked to him in 3 months, ever since I blocked his number, I couldn’t under go the pain & the deep feelings that he no longer shared with me. Since he “got sick of missing me” & since “he didn’t feel the same” I contain the wonder to speculate what would happen if I saw him once more. Don’t overlook what I’m saying; I am familiar that we might not be destined for each other. I understand that there is a guy for me out there but… Is it actually over between us? The last time we were in each other's company I was at his house, he walked directly over to me & hugged me so tight because I hadn’t seen him in 2 weeks. He started kissing me & pushing me up against the kitchen counters. We ended up kissing all night at the same time “watching a movie” it was a typical night for us, meaning amazing, but normal for us. We were spooning while we were watching the movie & he wouldn’t let me go throughout the whole night. He was staring at me for a really long time & I looked at him & said, “What’s wrong are you okay?” & since it’s hard for us to see each other he said “I’m going to miss you so much,” & held me even tighter & started making out with me. Later, I was in the living room about to leave. His dad walked in on us making out. I was on top of him at the time; he was upset. My ex tried making out with me once more once his dad left & I said no I don’t want to upset your dad anymore. He understood & he walked me out the door because I was leaving & kissed me goodbye, but it was hard for him to let me go. A week later: he asked his parents if he could spend some time at my house mom said yes, dad said no. He was upset & called me, we talked all night. A week passed, & we were busy with sports. We barely talked on the phone it was pretty much just a text messaging relationship for that 7 days, & he broke it off with me on that Saturday. He “got sick of missing me” & he just “didn’t feel the same anymore.” The love died off between us. I’m wondering, what would happen if he saw me again? Did he forget about how much we loved each other seriously? He would call me every night after we were together, and tell me he misses me so much, I could tell it in his voice. Would the memories that we had together possibly flood into his mind? When is it truly over, or is it? He was my best friend & I miss him like crazy. If you have a response like “time will heal” or “more guys will come” I don’t need to hear that, I have that in my head already. I want different pieces of advice right now for the reason that this is tugging on my heart. I’m going to see him this Friday, what do I do? He’s going to be at the same birthday party that I’ll be at.
Well, from what I just read. Facts: He's impatient He's high maintenance He makes you feel amazing when you're with him However, he makes you feel horrible when you're not
It does not look like a healthy relationship. I don't know how old you are, but it says you're under eighteen. So, I'm going to say something you already know. You have your whole life ahead of you. I know it hurts. but you should forget about this guy and bring a date to this birthday party you both are going to attend. Maybe if he sees you with another guy he'll finally realize that he should stop giving you all these mixed signals and commit. And if he doesn't, then you'll finally know that things are over between you two.
I really hope the best for you. This is not an easy situation to handle.
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(Age:Under 18)
When: 2 months ago
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