hi. my boyfriend and I just broke up today. 8/16/08. the reason why we broke up is because I was more talkitive in notes and in emails and it was true but I can also be talkitive by phone or in person. I'm still in school and we have a class together and its kinda hard to talk to him during class so we pass notes to each other. when we went out on a date the other night ( we went to see a movie ) when it was over he gave me a hug goodbye and I was waiting for my mom to come pick me up. anyway I still love him so much more then hell ever know and when I was little I lived in a fantasy world ( I still do ) and when my grandmother died it all started to fade to darkness. so I was waiting for someone to shine some light in my world again. Every day I force a smile when I'm sad. anyway when me and my boyfriend went out he was the only one who shone light in my world and I had bfs before him again and they never shone any light. or made me feel the same way as I feel about my one that broke up with me today.
iv never felt anything like this before and he told me that he really hoped that he wasnt the only guy that made me happy but its a little to late for that because he is the only one that makes me happy but he doesn't know that. when we went out on our date in an email he told me this that he thought I didn't feel comfortable around him when I did and he felt like he was on a date with his sister because we've known each other since 1st grade so what do I do I love him so much and I wish I could get him back but. this is the 3rd time I went out with him but the first time it was a misunderstanding. how can I learn to find someone else to shine some light and make me feel the same way he did.i never felt like this around him be4 and I just want him back ( his in my head all the time and I just shed a ter for him to be mine again ) ( srry this is long )
You could tell him how he makes you feel. If all he was saying was that he didn't feel like you were enjoying yourself, it would help if you expressed how he makes you feel.
If you are just looking to move on, then you'll just need to work at clearing your mind of him, and moving forward. A guy should make you feel happy, but you should not make yourself dependent on him. It sort of sounds like that is what you're looking for, someone you can be dependent on, and I would strongly discourage that. Abusive personalities look for that kind of person, and not that you wouldn't catch on, but most people don't.
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