so my boyfriend and I have been together for a bout a year now. neither of us has had a job this summer so we are always together and we live together at my parents where we always have to have our guard up because that's how my family is. not a good place for us to stay but our relationship has been strained because of it I get into a argument with my parents and then me and him end up getting into it.in may he got into a bad accident and broke his neck and back and isn't able to work right now . so I have been supporting him and driving him around to his doctors appointments and court. Well the other day we got into a very bad argument and I told him to leave that I didn't want to be with him. my dad had called his mom to come pick him up and then as we were talking she came and flipped on me. so he left. I later about a hour later drove to his house and tried to talk to him. he started taking his stuff out of my car and said that we needed to take a break for about a week. and that he would call me if and when he wanted to talk to me. and that he wasnt going to look for anyone or cheat on me. he has been hanging out with my brother ever since. and this happened on sunday he hasn't come over or nothing. does this mean he is actually going to break up with me? or is the break needed because of all the time we spend together and not enough time for ourselves? I don't want to lose him I love him with all my heart. he also said that I was bitching and nagging him non stop and that he was tired of it. do you think he'll come back? or leave it as it is . I still have a bunch of his things. also my brother won't help he told me he is not getting involved that it was not his business that if I wanted to know anything than to call him and ask him myself he said I needed to ask him not my brother.
Today I talked to him for the first time since sunday. I talekd to him briefly, I asked if we were over and he said he hasn't decided yet. and I left it at that. when he was leaving I asked him when will he know. He said he didn't know and I said well you can't just leave me hanging, he said yes I can. I'm a grown ass man ill do what I want when I want. and then that was that
You can't really 'decide' to be over or not and frankly I don't think you ever even started, so it shouldn't be hard to make it officially over. The sooner the better.
the thing is with women, is we say things when were mad and regret it later. best advice: think before you speak. you kicked him out, now he's pissed. don't think he's going away forever just doens't want to talk to you right now. DONT EVER SAY ANYTHING IF YOU DONT MEAN IT. all you can do is let him cool off, and call him back and appoligize. you just got in a fihght, that's all. at least he picked up his phone and talked to you after that. my boyfriend says that too. there really not a grown ass man, men don't have to tell other people that your a man, lol. I told him that and he was pissed to.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 3 months ago
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