Why do guys like being called daddy?

Its a dominance submission thing. She is being submissive when she calls him daddy, however its a dominance thing that in my opinion is far more intimate. Basically a daddy is the one who takes care of her, loves her etc. So her calling him that shows that she trust him and loves him and wants him to take care of her. So it also kind of reinforces his masculinity as well as the fact that he is in control. However its a type of control that is different then other dominance play, namely that its coming from love from intimacy and by choice vs. dominance play that would be say bdsm where its about physical control and forcing them to obey through threat of pain. So That's why I prefer it, I like the dominance and her being submissive but I want it to be willing and loving (and in a weird way he is being submissive as well because he wants you he wants and needs you to choose him to be the one in control so this is also something that creates another layer of intimacy).

While I certainly don't like it, I think that it plays into certain elements of male psychology. The man tends to want to be dominant and protective. That stereotype of men who want to be providers is actually rooted in evolutionary psychology. When a woman calls a guy "Daddy," especially if the woman is younger, the man gets to feel like he is in that protective role and suggests that the girl needs him. In that it also flatters the male ego.

My girlfriend likes calling me daddy, mostly it's about the power dynamic of the relationship. He wants to see himself as powerful and you calling him daddy helps him achieve that. It's loving, respectful, and intimate and sets him up as the dominant figure.

You're right to choose Meedo as best I'm pretty sure that's what it's all about. My girlfriend is older than me by eight years but I have more grey hairs than her so part of it is just kinda playing off the idea that I look somewhat older than her and the other is, I mean, as he said, she's mine she's doing what I tell her and that's... that's pretty fucking awesome.

Some do it as fantasy role play, there are many like it including rape fantasy and if its confined to the bedroom and dies nobody any harm then each to their own. Not my thing really unless the girl wanted to do it but not something I would initiate myself.

Latent oedipal complex, perhaps?

Some people use it in domination/submission, and if that's what floats their boat then I'm TOTALLY cool with it, but I think there's some weird shit at play there.

Just my opinion and I don't intend to offend with it at all.

I just want to state that not all guys like that kind of stuff. I personally don't like it. But, as explained below, it's fantasy or power, but don't worry too much about it--when it comes down to it, quite a few people have strange quirks like that. Now, if there were bigger and weirder things that were happening, that might be something to worry about.

When being sexual with a girl she has called me "daddy"...i didn't ask her to call me that, but if that helps her fulfull a fantasy and "get off", I'm all for it. :)

However, I have NEVER been called "daddy" outside the bedroom...especially since I don't have kids. :-P

Cuz it's sweet. He's probly thinking of your future children. My mom called my dad dad. She had eight children, and he called her mom. Becuz she was mom.
Maybe not the best explanation. But if my wife had my children, I'd call her mom. Just becuz she is.

it makes us feel more power and dominant.

after all the first man you came across in your life, who raised you, who you should always respect, who pointed you in the right direction, who yelled at you, who put you in timeout or whooped your ass when you were bad was indeed you "Daddy"

i think people are getting the idea that daddy is referring to ones own parent, but in sex i think its more of like referring to your partner being the daddy of your children even if you dont have children or are trying to make a baby. its just kind of sexy, and it makes me feel like she's all mine

I think that is the weirdest fucking thing in the world. Also when I guy sees a hot chick and says "daddy likes." Creep swag on a hundred million billion trillion.

Their are many reasons why, but I suppose it's because it makes us feel dominant or that we have control. But to others it may be for incestuous reasons. It is also used similarly to the term "baby". We don't literally mean baby when we call our bf/gf that, but it reveals we have the same qualities for them. Same goes for "daddy".

It's not just calling him "daddy". It's about calling him "daddy" like a slave. Like you are very obeyed to him, you will do whatever he says. It gives them the feeling of domination which they cherish. It's the feeling that this girl will do whatever I say. So go on and call her "daddy" erotically. He will give you the best fuck of your life. :) Don't feel wrong for that. Daddy doesn't mean "father" here, means "I am your salve" :)

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Not my thing. It would seem a little weird for me, unless she and I had kids and was talking about me in front of me to the kid.

I could assume why some guys would like that, but it’d be a turn off for me personally.

I have no friggin idea! I think it's just cliche. Honestly, I find it a little strange. I like it when she says my name because intimacy is sexier. Also, that way I know that she knows who she's with pleasuring her. Yeah please don't call me daddy. I'm not related to you and I'm not dropping you off at daycare.

Dad, daddy is an authoritative figure( in the eyes of most people ) and gives men an ego boost when having sexual intercourse or other varies sensual/sexual acts.

Nobody calls me daddy except my daughters. If I was shagging a woman and she did it, I would run a mile

I find that to be creepy as fuck. My kids call me Daddy, why would I want to turn that into a sexual thing?

becareful if you marry him and have kids he'll do your daughter(s).

I dated a girl who, on one occasion, "tried on" the whole calling me daddy thing. It was, honestly, in the top 5 weirdest things I've ever had happen in bed and was a huge turn off. The "fun" ended.

From what I've heard and read from those that like it, it's a position of power. Call a man daddy, and he's automatically over you in a one sided "power struggle".

If some guy wanted to be called master or some other word describing an authority figure, I could understand...
But "daddy" sounds a lot like incest and that's cringe.

I think it's disgusting.

A woman won't call another man "Daddy" unless she has no respect for her real father.

Imagine if your son started calling some other woman "Mommy."

I have no idea since I would feel awkward af if I was called a daddy. I'm no daddy to you, woman, I'm your partner.

Guys still do that? I would probably laugh if I saw a girl calling her boyfriend that or a guy wanting to be called that.

I know Pedro Martinez knows that the Yankees are his "Daddy."

It's probably a domination type thing.

Well it make them feel that the girl like him.
He feels that she is enjoying him and would love to be with him.
Also girls like wants there boy to be like as there father maybe this is alos the reason.

If she gets extra horny or adventurous, she can call me what ever she wants!

Yeah I absolutely love when she calls me daddy. My favorite usage is in the bedroom, but she sometimes uses it outside of it as well.

*vomits* one of the biggest turn offs I have ever heard.

I don't like that, it makes me feel like I'm fucking my daughter... ewww >.<

He's just immature lol, wants to be referred to as a grown up when he's not =D. Tell him, how much your real daddy does earn. =D

I don't understand it either. Maybe Harakiri is onto something. I don't like being called that. It's weird to me.

Um, really not trying to be a jerk, but you might consider that you are not sleeping with the best quality of people.

I'd agree with Xeno, it seems to me that a daddy would be an authority figure, so that would give the guy a power trip of sorts.

I don't know. I'm not into it. If I know anyone who is, they haven't admitted it. It's kind of bizarre, especially during sex.

not all guys love it... I've tolerated it for a girl in the past, but given the choice, I would opt out.

It depends on the individual and maybe on the age. I really don´t like to be called this way.

No I'm not trying to be thinking about fucking a daughter get that shit outta here

Personally I hate the thought. I think it's to with dominance / submission. She is saying that she's subservient to him. Daddy as authority figure.