I had been dating this guy for six weeks and we were totally into each other. We hung out every weekend and he would call me at least once a day. And every time he told me he would call he did. I never felt like games were being played.
Now I am just confused. The weekend they put his grandmother in the hospital he started becoming very distant. I didn't let it bother me too much, but then she died a week later and that was the last time I heard from him.
That was two weeks ago. Since then I have tried not to bother him too much I have called or texted 4 times only in a two week period to show support and let him know I was thinking about him. But he has not responded to me at all. How should I take this? Has he given up and lost interest? Was I showing too much support? And what can I do to possibly sway him back my way in the future? I know six weeks isn't along time, but we were having fun and would like to continue to have fun in the future.
I think it's rather rude and selfish of him to ignore you when all you were doing was being there for him. Have you gone to see him in person at all? Maybe he is too depressed to use his phone or computer. I can understand depression as I have experienced it many times, so that's the only thing I can think of where he doesn't come off being in the wrong. People would always communicate to me that they felt hurt I wouldn't let them cheer me up when I was depressed, eventually I got the idea in my head and could understand what they were telling me. Maybe he needs that extra nudge himself.
If you know where to go see him in person, that's what I suggest doing. Maybe he needs a wakeup call and to realize life goes on.
Well maby he is just overwhelmed, I would text him saying you are o worried about him last night you couldn't sleep, that will make him feel bad and put pressure on him to respond. Calling twice and text 4 times is so not showing too much. I would leave a message like I know you are going through a hard time right now but I'm so worried about you, I hope you are ok. If you could just do me a favor and call or text so I know you ok please that would be so appreciated. Take care of ya miss the fun we had. Night. Cool?
Thanks so much, made me feel better! - 7 months ago
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Welcome. - 7 months ago
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Oh and not to crush the hope, if he doesn't respond with in a week then I would assume that he found some other comfort and I would move on, you should wait up for someone that can't communicate properly ya know. - 7 months ago
If you really want to keep seeing him, the best way is just to be there for him and help him through whatever he's come upon. I bet its really hard for him and he probably just feels wrong if he were to still be having fun and enjoying his life when his grandmother just passed away. Give him time, support and space. Don't talk to much about why he isn't responding to you but just let him know that your there for him. Eventually he will brighten up and realize what a supporting girlfriend he has which really captures a mans heart and you guys will pick up where you left off.
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