I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 years and these past 2 years he has changed in some ways. We’ve lived together for almost 2 years now.
His mentality is a little more sexist and he tends to watch videos on YouTube that “guide” him on being a man. I read a title of one of the videos once and it said “How to treat women bad” or something very similar to that.
He doesn’t hit me but he does like to bother me a lot and when I say stop he doesn’t (like hitting my ass for ex). He’s not quite fair either, he wants me to do all of our apt stuff alone (cook, clean, wash his clothes, serve him his food…etc) while he goes to work just like I do. He says he wants his extra time for his personal business so we can be in a better spot financially but he’s always on his phone or watching videos and playing ps5. (Yes, we’ve talked about this a million times).
He’s changed from when I knew him in the beginning. I’m really a caring and sweet person with him. But when I get serious he just makes fun of me. I feel bad because I’m really an emotional person. I feel like if he’s mad he forces me to answer to him or do things but when its me thats mad he doesn’t even care to fix it or answer my question (s).
Right now he left my side and said he didn’t want to be next to me. I did piss him off, but he pissed me off first and could not even answer one question. I was asking him “why can't you stop when im clearly telling you to stop?” He was like “give me my phone back” and I said id give it back after he answered so he took both phones, hid mine and left the room. Telling me he didn’t want me next to him made me feel bad because I just wanted to talk things out.
Sometimes it crosses my mind to leave him but I really do want us to work. I do love him but I can’t help to wonder what the future holds if we keep this up. He says that if we break up it’s because I wanted us to.
