Why do girls in their early 20's like to play stupid games?

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At first they're really cool. Then they start to act like their shit does not stink. They play games and act like they're the hottest piece out there. So they're attractive. yeah, on the outside. On the inside they are an immature and insecure person. I understand they are getting over past heart break, but after awhile that attitude gets tiring or annoying. There are plenty of girls out there who act like this. Those are the ones that.

They want a guy to leave messages on their myspace to make other guys jealous. They want the guy to meet their friends right away so they can show him off. I've met a lot of girls like this.

If you're looking for a serious relationship start acting serious.

What other reasons cause these girls to act this way?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well I can only speak for myself, but if I were to act like that, it would be a defense mechanism. We are used to dealing with a-holes that use us for sex or cheat or don't know what they want. Especially lately, it's rare to find a guy in his early twenties who is actually looking for a real relationship. So if I were a game player, I would do it so that I wouldn't get hurt or so I can make a guy realize that I am something worth working hard for. If you're willing to put forward the extra effort to deal with my sh*t, you're interested in more than a piece of tail.

But you are in the 25-29 range. usually guys your age are a little bit more ready to settle down. I think you are just talking to the wrong girls. Talk to girls more around your age or girls that have a higher maturity level and are emotionally stable. You'll probably have more success that way. Good luck.

amberview · Accepted Answer

They want attention or are trying to get a reaction. The ones that try to make people jealous are probably trying to manipulate people.

The meeting friends right away doesn't sound like a game to me though. I would think the guy wasn't serious about me if he didn't want me to meet his friends or didn't want to meet mine. That would be a red flag for me that the guy is playing games. It might be because a guy once did that to me for YEARS though.

A-Soldiers-Wife07 · Accepted Answer

Their insecure about themselves because of past relationships. Plus, they still have some growing up to do. Don't date them if it bothers you that much. That's all I can say. My husband is 6 years older than me and I'm only 21, but our situation is a little different. I was forced to grow up when I got married at 19.

muzeasd · Accepted Answer

I think you were bit harsh on the topic. There is always a kid hidden inside everyone. Though 18 is considered to be adult, but I think 22+ should be considered as adult age since the maturity level becomes more stable.