Why do guys stop putting in the effort!??!?!

Anonymous

(36-45)

why is that once a guy thinks he's got a girl for good he doesn't try as hard anymore!? like the guy I've been dating is really amazing and the first few months we were talking he would always text me and call me and do all these cute things to please me, but now 6 months in he's stopped. no more cute texts no more phones calls or cute facebook comments. I don't understand is just me? because I feels likes he's not putting in that effort anymore!? why do you guys do that? insight would be nice as to what you guys are thinking about once you've got a girl and feel like you don't have to make an effort anymore!?

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Chrystilicit Follow
Xper 4 Age: 36 , mho 54%

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It's possible that before he was trying to please you but now maybe he's set a more comfortable pace...but I think you should talk to him about it because communication is very important...maybe there's something going on in his life he hasn't told you about...just talk to the guy..

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Anonymous
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  Something just tells me your a f***in asshole!
  
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machine Follow
Xper 5 Age: 38 , mho 42%

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i would think it is because they made all that to get you then they have you after so long and think what the point in going out of my way like I used to. I think it always in are heads to make an effort but we think the same about girls in fairness

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arisato- Follow
Xper 5 Age: 35 , mho 59%

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Well what do you do for him? It isn't fair to expect him to do everything in the relationship if you don't pull your own weight. Maybe he got tired of doing all the work?

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Rahim517 Follow
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[In presidential voice] Ask not what you're boyfriend can do for you, ask what you can do for your boyfriend.

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Whoknows87 Follow
Xper 3 Age: 38

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cause he probably feels whipped and you may not do cool things to make him happy...so he probably gave up, cause the relationship is turning lopsided.

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emilyxo Follow
Xper 4 Age: 33 , mho 50%

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im with you on this one!

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