My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years and I met his dad 1yr into our relationship.
His dad has an outgoing personality and is young at heart so we get on well.
I've caught him looking at me a few times, like at my butt or legs and breasts.
He tries to make me laugh all the time. When I visit him he puts so much effort into his appearance.
My boyfriend has told me that his dad had said I was good looking.
And when I was at boyfriend house he came out knowing I was in the living room with his fly undone and topless, putting top on in front of me and my boyfriend?
I like him but I'm so confused as he is my boyfriends father. Its wrong but I'm attracted to him. Is he giving me signals or am I just being weird?
I like this question too, the moment I saw it in a list, I just had to click on it. Yeah he's giving signals. I stare at girls butt, legs, and breasts too when I'm interested call it what you will but it's not perverted. Hold on, his fly undone? I haven't seen this one, this guy must be horny as hell for you, he might as well hold up a sign. And putting his shirt on, ha, you can't tell me you were attracted to that, wasn't he a little fat and flabby? I don't know if he's wanting to get with you, that might be a little weird but you're definitely eye candy for him
No his really fit- body wise- his in good shape. The thing is, I feel this tension between us, but because of the situation being my b/fs dad and what not, its all hush hush and nothings been done about it. I am definately attracted to him but it feels so wrong and I guess I wanted you guys to tell me that its all in my head so I can get over it! Lol and yeh he came out cos he was getting ready and his fly was undone, so he done it up in front of me thus drawing my attention to his youknowwhat. - 8 months ago
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I don't think it's wrong to be attracted to anyone of the opposite sex. Do you like the dad more than the boyfriend? Is the dad better looking than the boyfriend? How old is the dad anyway? Also, just because you're attracted to him that doesn't really mean much. It's if you actually know the guy and like him that counts. - 8 months ago
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His 45. And yes I like him as a person too. Ah I'm screwed. Lol - 8 months ago
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45? Unless this guy is Brad Pitt I wouldn't take a chance if I were you. What's wrong with your boyfriend, is he not good enough? If his dad has a good body, I'm sure he has a good body too right? - 8 months ago
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I don't know what the attraction is myself. I just like older men. But ur right, nothing should come of it, it wouldn't b a good idea. - 8 months ago
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Okay think about this---------in twenty years he'll be 65 and what are you about my age? You'll be around 40. Do you want to look under the sheets and see wrinkly prune sacks? I think not, he'll only be preserved for the next few year before he starts to whither. I don't know about you, but I would not want to be with someone who can wipe their ass with their own ass cheeks. - 8 months ago
His fly was undone lol wtf..... Don't get yourself mixed-up in a father and son triangle! Maybe it could help to speak to you're Boyfriend about it? But I wouldn't say oh by the way I'm attracted to him too... I would say something on the lines of I feel awkward around him? - 8 months ago
From a genetics stand-point, it's natural for you to be somewhat attracted to your boyfriends Dad. He's 1/2 your boyfriend, genetically speaking. On the other hand, it sounds like he's having a mid-life crisis. He's 1/2 your age!
In any case, be flattered. What this means is two things: 1. You are hot in your "dad's" eyes. And 2. Your Boyfriend must find you hot, too, since attraction is partially genetic.
Part attraction to you, part mid-life crisis. It's an awesome feeling and boost to the old ego knowing a younger hot woman is attracted to you.
Chalk it up to weird hormones doing their thing at that age and pay it no attention. IF however you break up with your bf, then consider the dad fair game. That will invoke some issues between him and your then ex-bf of course, but that wouldn't be any of your business.
His father is being very inconsiderate. If he had any respect for his son, he would keep it in his pants whenever you are over at their house. He needs to go out and get his own girlfriend and stop trying to attract you.
Just think about what it is you want. If you want a serious relationship with the son, you need to tell him about what is going on. And if he knows, tell him he needs to say something to his father and get him to stop. Taking the other road, and experimenting with his father, you'd be throwing away your three year relationship with the son for certain. Even if things didn't end, I doubt the father is looking for anything more than sex at this point.
You should try to fix him up with any single ladies you know.
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