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Skinny guy?

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kaching (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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ok so I was wondering, is it a turn off to girls if a guy is skinnier than them? because I have a 28 waist but I have way broader shoulders and just muscles in general I'm just naturally thin. still I find girls so obsessed about their weight and I'm curious if they actually compare themselves to guys as well as other girls

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Your going to get so many different answers because women think differently. For me as long as your comfortable in your own skin it realy doesn't matter if your smaller then me. Don't worry so much if a girl have a problem with your waist then most likely deep down she has a problem with hers. Enjoy life and forget about the small things
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Captain-Sarah (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I never compare my own body to that of a man's the same way I don't compare my breasts to that of a mans. The attractiveness of a man's weight is on somewhat of a different level. I have said I don't like it if a man wears smaller pants than me but that is more of a figure of speech for me. I it is about proportion. Being a woman I want to feel that my man is able to protect me. If you can be blown over in the wind I'm not going to feel protected. I don't want to feel like I will crush you if I straddle you either. Personally I am not attracted to skinny guys in general. I like a man with a tad extra. Not necessarily chubby but slightly built is good. Don't forget cut forearms. ooh. Hot.
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Question Asker I've done martial arts since I was 7 and I'm the starting x attackman on my high school's varsity team I just have a strange waistline - 3 months ago

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irish-girl-08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
i love skinny guys ! but I do feel very self consious and always think they won't go for me because I've got arse , boobs and hips and they more than likely want someone whos smaller than them so I do compare mysself in some ways but skinny guys I defo like them I don't like muscley guys though
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Etude
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Etude (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Skinny guys kinda repel me. I mean, my current guy is way thinner than me by about 20 pounds or so. lol. I'm not kidding but, yeah. It's kinda strange.
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gravygirl (Age:30 to 35)      When: 3 months ago
I don't think I would like a guy who weighed less than me, but I'm usually around 125, so it hasn't come up. I don't think I'd care about his waist, but 28 is really thin. My boyfriend is a 32 and he's fairly skinny. How tall are you?
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Question Asker 5'8'' (and a half lol I'm so short that half is important to me) - 3 months ago

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lotus-blossom-08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Weight is definitely not going to be a big deal breaker for me. I'm small and have a 28" waist also and there was a guy who I had a crush on who was just as skinny as I was but had the most amazing eyes and smile .*le sigh*.

Though it isn't going to be a deal breaker for me, it might shock me a little to come across a guy who is skinnier than me (because most of the time it never happens) or to come across a guy who is shorter than me (I'm 19, 5'2 and done growing so again, it almost never happens) but it won't be a deal breaker for me. As long as you aren't like, anorexic and as you said, have some muscle and meat on your bones so it's not like I'm cuddling a scarecrow.you shouldn't have any problems.
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thebeegees (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
i like all types of men. skinny, average, broad, chubby. just depends on the guy, some looks suit others better. as long as your body is manly, I find it atttractive. being skinny wouldn't be a factor.
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ALWAYSclassy (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I would assume skinny guys like even skinnier girls so I wouldn't try anything. I missed out on a guy because of that, that's insecurity on my part but oh well.

Do most skinny guys like skinny girls?
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hapa18 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I don't compare myself. I'm attracted to slim or skinny guys, but if they're like really skinny (stick like or twiggy) then ya no, I'm not attracted.
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LoveMaeRae (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Well, I'm XL (but not morbidly obese mind you) and I find myself attracted to skinny guys but.I figure they'd want girls their own size and someone who's NOT bigger than them so I don't pursue anything. Haha, who knew guys were asking the same question, kind of. =]

In any case, some girls care and some girls don't. But I would think since the majority of girl's needs are met emotionally, being skinnier than they were wouldn't bother them unless it bothered you.
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adat1408 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
dont worry about your weight.be you.
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