Girls, what makes you miss a guy you've been flirting with?
Guys, what did you do to make a girl miss you?
Guys, what did you do to make a girl miss you?
Best way to make a girl miss you? Girls and guys answer.
Ignore her, if she likes you she will miss you and you can get her to admit it (I did it and she admitted it, so now she can't say NO, I didn't miss you). The thing though, is why you want her to miss you? Is she being hot and cold? If so this is the best way to go, because you will show her that you don't go around playing her little mind games. Some people will tell you "dont ignore her, that's mean!" but seriously, some girls need help growing up and all you are doing in giving her that little push she needs. You gotta be willing to do it for a while, a week or two, if she talks to you, respond, be polite, but act extremely uninterested, don't initiate any conversations. After you've done it, go up to her, talk to her like nothing happened, then ask if she missed you and you will have your answer.
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I've tried A and C, they never do sh*t. A just makes it so she stops talking to you and you lose her from your life and C just hurts you because you keep waiting and she keeps looking for someone else. So I said B because hey, why not try going out with someone else? The person you really want to go out with won't date you so instead of getting hung up on them and staying single, look for someone else. And in case it doesn't work between you and the new person, if you can prove by dating that girl that you are a good boyfriend to have or can manage to make her jealous enough to want you and be willing to give you a chance, win win.
You should have an option for none of the above. The first two are game playing maneuvers and would turn me off. "A" would make me think they guy's not interested or that he's playing hard to get, in either case I'd move on. "B" would make me think he's a player or the type who enjoys making girls jealous and would get the same reaction as "A." And "C" sounds like the normal dating routine, but it wouldn't make me miss someone...
The thing that makes me miss my boyfriend is not seeing him every day. Those days we spend away from each other make me long for the next day that I'll get to see him :) Same thing applied when we were still in the flirting/dating stage.
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If you ignore her all over the place then she'll probably start thinking you're mad at her, or that you hate her, etc.
If you go out with other girls and "make sure she knows", she'll probably give up or feel like she has no chance with you.
If you just keep being friends then feelings may or not develop, depending on whether or not you make any efforts to show her you like her.
You don't have to force her miss you or whatever to get her to like you.. just be there for her and show her you care, it's not so hard..
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I hate when a guy just all the sudden stops talking to me, it makes me think that he just doesn't care anymore and eventually it makes me think well if he doesn't want to talk anymore I'm not wasting my time waiting around for him, and tend to move on.
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I absolutely hate it when a guy ignores me on facebook and I can totally tell when they're doing it too. It just makes them seem like an asshole. Also if a guy was going out with other girls and stuff, I would just think he didn't like me and he's a player. If you want a girl to miss you don't ignore her just don't initiate anything. and then if you don't talk to her for about a week, text her and ask if she misses you yet . Or next time you see her after a long time, say "Hey, Have you missed me? :)"
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a is ridiculously harsh. no girl wants to be treated like that. either it will crush her or p*ss her off and she'll move on. b is not going to get her to miss you. again, it will crush her or she will just accept it and move on. and making sure she knows it just makes you a jerk. a balance between a and c is your best bet. don't ignore her but don't text her or talk to her all the time. be her friend, but not her best friend. and don't treat her like crap. no girl wants or deserves to be ignored.
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ignore her it works, it makes you jealous as hell and wonder what else or who else is in their life. However, you musn't completely ignore her, text her at least once a week, but only send a few texts and make sure she is last to reply in the sequence. Make sure you always seem happy with your life and how things are going, this will send her brain into overdrive and keep you on her mind. I would also advise going to the gym, new clothes work on your appearance slightly, she will think she has competion and you become more appealing, then after some time doing this casually ask her out for food/drink whatever and then you MUST show interest comment how she looks, smile alot, flirt with her and if all this doesn't work MOVE ON, and put your energy into something more productive...Good luck
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Yeah, I get realllllllyyyy pissed when he ignores me on facebook! xD I like miss him a lot then!
But I would never initiate so it would be better if he texted or talked to me after a while cause then he would have taken it too far and I'd move on =/ -
Don't ignore her, go with other girls instead. If you ignore her, she will know that you are giving her too much importance and she will think you are immature. If you go out with other girls and still talk to her, she will know that you just don't give a damn about her and you have more options open which in turn will make her want you more since you are more wanted by other girls.
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A - stupid
B - even more idiotic
C - you could try that...but end up making her bitter and she just moves on
Try going on a short trip. Say you have a small surgical procedure on your knee done or something...she'll be worried about you AND the mere fact that you're not going to be around her will definitely get to her. She might not call you or message you, but you can be sure she is missing you LIKE CRAZY!
(if you don't want to be a little on the mean side, you can skip the surgical procedure thing...and just get out for a few days) - 3 days will seem like 3 years! xD -
If you have intentions of going out with the girl don't ignore her on facebook, or go out with other girls. and you've gotta text her as long as she responds...don't try playing hard to get a whole lot it's not gonna be successful for very long.
I'd say if you wanna go out with her then just take a while between responses and that'll keep her in suspence and wanting more -
Get in the habit of calling every day before you goto bed then stop calling. Whenever anyone has this level of expectation and it isn't met, they have a tendency to miss the person (or more importantly that stimulus).
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A -- ridiculous. it will make me think you're not interested and I WILL move on. so you lose, not me
B -- definitely will me think you're a player and an ass. will NEVER talk to you again
C -- if she's not ready, then she never will be. -
just let her know you love her, but you can't be there for her if she isn't there for you. Then you sort of just have no contact but let her contact you only. Until you realizes you are not contacting her much and she asks you to do it, make her do that for a while. Then finally start to slowly contact her also.
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Science says ignoring a girl tends to make them more interested in you (on average). So ya, A would seem the way to go if you really wanted to make her miss you and crap. As for me? Meh, I go with C in life and don't care to play those stupid games.
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I start missing a guy after he's "ignored" me for an entire day. Then start wondering why he hasn't talked to me or texted me. But when it reaches the 3-4 day mark, then I start getting kind of mad at him for it. Not in a 'I'm gonna hurt/ignore you back and see how you like it' kind of way, but just anger for him ignoring me for so long thing. I get over it and happy again once I've heard from him again though.
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Yeah ignoring her would probably be the one to make her miss you. But in saying so you would have to think twice about doing it because yes she might miss you when you're ignoring her but when you want her to get serious and give her attention it might be a turn off. In other words, she might just be in it for the fun of the chase but doesn't want to be caught.
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ignoring a girl does not work. The girl just thinks you don't like her and she will move on
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If you text always be the first one to stop texting, if you are on a call always be like oh I have to go. Responding to texts when she texts is a good idea but also you have to give her something every once in a while, like text first maybe once in a week, or twice that week.
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Don't make a lot of efforto stay in contact, especially not at first, put the ball in her court. If you don't hear from her it wasn't meant to be.
If you have to chase after her all the time and beg for attention, you're wasting your time. -
completely ignore.. that would bother me or even make me mad at u
Go out with girls.. id be jealous if I liked you in some way but if your just in the friend zone id cheer you on
keep being "just Friends".. if I know or can tell you like me that would be the best choice but if I like someone else there's nothing you can do to make me miss u.. but Id definatley notice how good you were to me after I get dumped/rejected/or left alone -
I only miss a guy and think about him a lot if I have feelings for him or we are really good friends.
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Be like Ryan Gosling from The Notebook. Show her good interest and then start taking it away slowly if she thinks she has you wrapped around her finger. She'll go crazy.
Always enjoy life and look like you are. she'll wonder what's happening in your life and start missing you -
Acting like a jerk isn't going to make her miss you its going to make her move on but if the convo is going no where. then stop talking intill she picks it up
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