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Girls, what makes you miss a guy you've been flirting with?
Guys, what did you do to make a girl miss you?


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Completely Ignore Her on FB, Only Respond to Texts When She Messages First

Go Out with Other Girls and Make Sure She Knows

Keep Being "Just Friends" Until She Is Ready to Go Out With You

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Over a year ago
I hate when a guy just all the sudden stops talking to me, it makes me think that he just doesn't care anymore and eventually it makes me think well if he doesn't want to talk anymore I'm not wasting my time waiting around for him, and tend to move on.

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  • Over a year ago
    I know exactly how you feel. I wish some guys would just grow some fckn balls and tell us girls to our faces why the f*** they just dropped us. bastards!
  • Question Asker
    Over a year ago
    Thanks you get best answer, but I wish you would make yourself unanonymous so I could add you as a friend :)
  • Answerer
    Over a year ago
    Sounds good! (: Good luck Hope I helped (:
  • Question Asker
    Over a year ago
    no, it won't be creepy, she knows I care about her, so good, I just want her to know that I'm not giving up on the idea of us being more than friends, I'm sure she will just show me that pretty smile, give me an eye roll, and laugh it off, like you said, but she will remember it :)
  • Answerer
    Over a year ago
    haha I'd probably not know what to say but id laugh and end up thinking about it for the rest of the day. Sometimes cheesy can be really cute lol as long as your not creepy lol
  • Question Asker
    Over a year ago
    so what do you think about the "my eyes like your eyes" thing, is that too cheesy :)
  • Answerer
    Over a year ago
    haha hmm I don't know lol, you could maybe say something like, "oh just some cute girl" or "Oh idk, just some girl I can't keep my eyes off" ha ha I don't know anything like that
  • Question Asker
    Over a year ago
    ok good, I do smile at her a lot, but what about the eye contact thing, some times I just stare at her and smile and she gives me a smile and asks what I'm stareing at, do you hv any cute comebacks to what I could say, I've been thinking about saying "sorry, its my eyes, they like your eyes" kinda lame, but you hv any better things to say after she asks what I'm looking at? Thanks :)
  • Answerer
    Over a year ago
    Personally I think you should smile at her a lot, or when you are walking by just tap her on the shoulder or something to say hey, the more you show little signs the more comfortable she will be with flirting
  • Question Asker
    Over a year ago
    gotcha, I hv done the only texting when she texts first for about a week so I'm going to wait another week before I stop, and I would never ignore someone in person, cause that's just mean, what are some things I could do that make her want flirt more with me like we used to before I told her I liked her? Should I make long eye contact, or should I make eye contact then look away, should I smile when doing either of these or just keep a straight face?
  • Answerer
    Over a year ago
    I think that if you stop texting her first for a week or less that's fine, because in general both people should start the conversations but if he stops texting you for a few weeks then you start to question whether he even wants to talk to you anymore so it would make her feel like she shouldn't text him anymore because she would think he isn't interested at all. And as for when somebody ignores me in person it just frusterates me and I start to ignore them as well and move on.
  • Question Asker
    Over a year ago
    I talk to her when I see her, but I've been waiting for her to text me before I text her back, Are you saying you think that when he stops texting you first as well, or only when he ignores you in person?

What Girls Said

  • Terrifical
    1324  
    Over a year ago
    I miss it when I really like a guy and he stops hanging out with me because he's "busy." :(

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Sometimes even after that I have a hard time getting over him. That bugs me to death. -_- That is so annoying.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Yeah! It sucks so bad, epsecially since you keep caring about them until they give you a definite no! And its like months later!
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Ugh! I hate being led on more than being lied to, cheated on, and dumped combined. That is my biggest pet peeve. I hate it when he isn't brave enough to tell me. They just don't value our time. :-/
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Yep! I know people are trying to not hurt our feelings but they need to realize they're stringing us along instead.
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Exactly! Wouldn't life just be so much easier that way? :(
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      I know girls do the same blowoff technique by saying their "busy". It sucks because if they don't wanna be around me then tell me! so I can move on lol
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    Over a year ago
    cute question :)

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  • Blaah408
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    Over a year ago
    Mostly Just Don't Text Her Or Just Don't Text Her First , Make Her Text You First ! &' Don't Talk To Her For Awhilee It Will Make Her Miss You .

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    Over a year ago
    I'll just tell him I miss him and how much I need him.
    After that a little disappear...:D

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    Anonymous User
    Over a year ago
    don't play the game. it's dumb. honestly I hate chasing guys because eventually I just give up.

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  • lovecraze
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    Over a year ago
    Make her fall in love with you..
    Do sweet things, that will get her thinking.. don't treat her bad, like ignore her and stuff... trust me, that's a big mistake. :)

    BEST OF LUCK!

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  • Shadoww
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    Over a year ago
    treat her right :P

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  • gummybear888
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    Over a year ago
    if you want a girl to miss you, probably you should ignore her for a while.

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  • -StillWater-
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    Over a year ago
    A - stupid
    B - even more idiotic
    C - you could try that...but end up making her bitter and she just moves on


    Try going on a short trip. Say you have a small surgical procedure on your knee done or something...she'll be worried about you AND the mere fact that you're not going to be around her will definitely get to her. She might not call you or message you, but you can be sure she is missing you LIKE CRAZY!

    (if you don't want to be a little on the mean side, you can skip the surgical procedure thing...and just get out for a few days) - 3 days will seem like 3 years! xD

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  • InMyHeart
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    Over a year ago
    If I really like a guy, I will miss him every moment I'm not with him. there's not really something he does. Just be fun and don't act like an obsessed stalker.

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  • diamond3
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    Over a year ago
    ignoring a girl does not work. The girl just thinks you don't like her and she will move on

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  • rory520
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    Over a year ago
    Acting like a jerk isn't going to make her miss you its going to make her move on but if the convo is going no where. then stop talking intill she picks it up

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    Over a year ago
    when she has too go or you have too go say something like 'dont miss me too much;)' ..then she will;) well that happens with me.. and don't not text her back/dont text her.. it'll just break her heart and you don't wanna do that:) just double the time you reply and sometimes do less kisses if you do any or do none:) xo

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  • Standingpretty
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    Over a year ago
    if we don't see him for awhile, if he talks (not too flirty though) with other girls, if we like him in the first place. it's different for everyone.

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  • Jess555
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    Over a year ago
    If you have intentions of going out with the girl don't ignore her on facebook, or go out with other girls. and you've gotta text her as long as she responds...don't try playing hard to get a whole lot it's not gonna be successful for very long.
    I'd say if you wanna go out with her then just take a while between responses and that'll keep her in suspence and wanting more

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  • confusedgirl198
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    Over a year ago
    ignore her it works, it makes you jealous as hell and wonder what else or who else is in their life. However, you musn't completely ignore her, text her at least once a week, but only send a few texts and make sure she is last to reply in the sequence. Make sure you always seem happy with your life and how things are going, this will send her brain into overdrive and keep you on her mind. I would also advise going to the gym, new clothes work on your appearance slightly, she will think she has competion and you become more appealing, then after some time doing this casually ask her out for food/drink whatever and then you MUST show interest comment how she looks, smile alot, flirt with her and if all this doesn't work MOVE ON, and put your energy into something more productive...Good luck

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    Over a year ago
    If you text always be the first one to stop texting, if you are on a call always be like oh I have to go. Responding to texts when she texts is a good idea but also you have to give her something every once in a while, like text first maybe once in a week, or twice that week.

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  • bubblygirl0811
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    Over a year ago
    If you're friends with her then suddenly ignores her, that will definitely make her miss you...

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    Over a year ago
    when I like a guy and were txting and then all of a sudden he stops, it drives me crazy and makes me think that he's not into me anymore but then when he texts me like a day later being all flirty it feels amazing :)

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  • Katyperry
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    Over a year ago
    Go for Letter A..IGnore hehe he's online and I'm online too but were not talking to each other hahaha well its not my fault anyway he dump me 3x so I guess its better to ignore him than to talk.

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    Over a year ago
    Ok...
    A -- ridiculous. it will make me think you're not interested and I WILL move on. so you lose, not me

    B -- definitely will me think you're a player and an ass. will NEVER talk to you again

    C -- if she's not ready, then she never will be.

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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      i kinda disagree, she has said that if we were in our 20s things would be different, so I'm kinda thinking if I just stay good friends with her for a while, she will change her mind, and it is clear there is attraction between us, I understand where your coming from if she had done nothing back to show she was interested in me, but she has and I think she is just young and a little overwhelmed right now, but thanks for your opinion :)
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    Over a year ago
    completely ignore.. that would bother me or even make me mad at u
    Go out with girls.. id be jealous if I liked you in some way but if your just in the friend zone id cheer you on
    keep being "just Friends".. if I know or can tell you like me that would be the best choice but if I like someone else there's nothing you can do to make me miss u.. but Id definatley notice how good you were to me after I get dumped/rejected/or left alone

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  • Rosesss
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    Over a year ago
    Yeah, I get realllllllyyyy pissed when he ignores me on facebook! xD I like miss him a lot then!
    But I would never initiate so it would be better if he texted or talked to me after a while cause then he would have taken it too far and I'd move on =/

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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Well, what does he do that you usually miss on FB?
  • emilyzenella
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    Over a year ago
    I absolutely hate it when a guy ignores me on facebook and I can totally tell when they're doing it too. It just makes them seem like an asshole. Also if a guy was going out with other girls and stuff, I would just think he didn't like me and he's a player. If you want a girl to miss you don't ignore her just don't initiate anything. and then if you don't talk to her for about a week, text her and ask if she misses you yet . Or next time you see her after a long time, say "Hey, Have you missed me? :)"

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Yeah that would be very sweet. I would love for a guy to say that to me even if I didn't like him, I would think it was the sweetest thing to say ever!
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Or what if when I see her after a long time I say "hvnt seen you in a while, hv you missed me as much as I've missed you" and look her in the eyes whole I'm saying this with a smile on my face?
    • Over a year ago
      awwwhh it would be so sweet if a guy did that! ^^ asking if he missed me :3 haha..
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      yep, that's the approach I'm taking, letting her initiate and texting her every 4 or 5 days, I've tried ignoring her lol, I can't do it, I'm too in love with her :)
  • KoolKat09
    1071  
    Over a year ago
    I start missing a guy after he's "ignored" me for an entire day. Then start wondering why he hasn't talked to me or texted me. But when it reaches the 3-4 day mark, then I start getting kind of mad at him for it. Not in a 'I'm gonna hurt/ignore you back and see how you like it' kind of way, but just anger for him ignoring me for so long thing. I get over it and happy again once I've heard from him again though.

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    Over a year ago
    just let her know you love her, but you can't be there for her if she isn't there for you. Then you sort of just have no contact but let her contact you only. Until you realizes you are not contacting her much and she asks you to do it, make her do that for a while. Then finally start to slowly contact her also.

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      buy her some flowers and send it to her at work or something. It'll at least make her think of you. Or maybe send her a blanket as a present, and personalize it with her name from you but just put your initials on it. Don't like do anything too drastic, but little gifts here and there. Maybe some stationary. When she sees it she'll think of you.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      well, I've told her that I will always be there for her, I will wait til she is ready to go out with me, and that she is a very special girl :) any other ideas like physical ideas?
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      maybe just let her know you will always be there for her and that she is important to you, that is sort of like telling her I love you without out saying it
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      well, I've done the no contact thing and we are texting again so I'm not worried about that really, but what do you mean let her know I love her lol, like show her I love her or tell her, cause I don't think telling her is good, and how do I show her I love her lol?
  • 333630
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    Over a year ago
    Dont talk to her for a while

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  • RizaRocks
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    Over a year ago
    pause for a day or two. just a day or two. not much otherwise it will create confusion and might have negative result.

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  • MissLeslie
    10949  
    Over a year ago
    No contact at all.

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  • tigergirl4
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    Over a year ago
    I always miss my boyfriend, but that's just because we're FORCED to be apart Mon-Thurs. Moving sucks.

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  • AliceMcKay
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    Over a year ago
    C because the first two answers are ways to hurt her and make her think that you are not interested. I would not like to be treated like that, so I wouldn't miss a guy who did that. If your around she can see how great you are ( if you are great) =p

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  • xobrowneyedbeauty
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    Over a year ago
    a is ridiculously harsh. no girl wants to be treated like that. either it will crush her or p*ss her off and she'll move on. b is not going to get her to miss you. again, it will crush her or she will just accept it and move on. and making sure she knows it just makes you a jerk. a balance between a and c is your best bet. don't ignore her but don't text her or talk to her all the time. be her friend, but not her best friend. and don't treat her like crap. no girl wants or deserves to be ignored.

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      "On the face of it it might seem that girls are turned off by that"
      yes it might indeed because in fact, they are. dude, I'm a girl and I have many close girl friends who I talk about guys with...i think I would know? girls WANT attention you fool...no wonder you feel like your time isn't worth much. no girl is going to want you if you can't treat her right!
    • Over a year ago
      Funny, that's not what the women in my life taught me.
    • Over a year ago
      On the face of it it might seem that girls are turned off by that, but over the years women have taught me that sometimes that's the only way to get their attention. The easiest way to get a girl to move on from me is to be super nice and attentive - most of them want a chase, and many of them think a guy who is nice and attentive is boring and/or his time isn't worth very much to her.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      yep, I agree, that's kinda what I've decided to do after looking at other answers and getting feedback, still gonna flirt with her, but not as much and make sure not to seem like she is all I think about, even though she really is lol :) and I would never just flat out ignore her, but what I was thinking when I put a down, is that I shouldn't hv to intiate contact every time, so I would let her do it for a while :)
  • urstruely
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    Over a year ago
    Ha, the first one will get you a girl that's uninterested and already moved on.

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  • ilovenursing
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    Over a year ago
    I only miss a guy and think about him a lot if I have feelings for him or we are really good friends.

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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      true, I know she likes me, I'm just wondering of things to do or not to do that would make her want to hang out with me, like should I just act normal like nothing is happening or should I ignore her for a while to let her know she hurt me when she said she just wants to be friends after I put my self out there telling her I like her, I'm just looking for ideas to get us back to flirting like we did before I told her I liked her, thanks :)
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    Over a year ago
    well this is what happened with me: there was this guy who really liked me and he would always talk to me, and I would talk to him but I ignored him a few times because I didn't realize I liked him. Then he started ignoring me and I couldn't stand that so I went back and tried to make him re-interested. I'd say whenever you act really nice to a girl and then all of a sudden stop she feels confused.

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    Over a year ago
    i hate being ignored.

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      both. it makes me miss the guy wich makes me fell like a fool wich I HATE-hate
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      like you hate it hate it, lol, or it makes you miss the guy?
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    Over a year ago
    don't go out with other girls. just flirt with them.

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      because if you date another girl, then she'll probably start to believe that she just has no chance with you again. but if you're just flirting with other girls then she'll think that there is a chance. and if you don't see her that often, you can talk about other girls to her. but not like too much.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      why not? she said she just wants to be friends anyway, I'm not planning on asking any girls out anyway, but why not? I'm just her friend, and its hard cause I only get to see her like 2 times a week so I can't really flirt with any other girls to see how she reacts
  • TheoryOfAvarice
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    Over a year ago
    If you ignore her all over the place then she'll probably start thinking you're mad at her, or that you hate her, etc.
    If you go out with other girls and "make sure she knows", she'll probably give up or feel like she has no chance with you.
    If you just keep being friends then feelings may or not develop, depending on whether or not you make any efforts to show her you like her.

    You don't have to force her miss you or whatever to get her to like you.. just be there for her and show her you care, it's not so hard..

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Well, good luck, anyways.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      haha I'm not trying to be fake, I really care about her, I think she is just a bit of an attention getter. Also, I'm gonna try and do something fun with her one day, like a movie or lunch or something. Then not pay attention to her for a week or so. Hopefully by me ignoring her after we do something fun she will see me as not so clingy and make her wonder what I've been doing for a week if you get my point, so that she tells herself that she better give me a chance before I get uninterested in her.
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Haha, you can do what you want dude, it's totally up to you and what you think will work and stuff. I mean I don't know the whole situation but I can only give you my best guess.

      Ignoring her in one world but paying attention to her in the other sounds really fake to me but people seem to do that, so who knows. Not that facebook is really all that important anyways..
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      yeah, I'm leaning toward a combination of A and C. Ignore her on FB, only text when she texts first, but be friendly and lovey in person. Sound good?
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      If she only sees you as a friend then my advice is patience and friendship, stick by her, hang out a lot, slowly but determinedly woo her (so option C, I guess).

      Ignoring her probably won't make that much of a difference in this case. And I don't really know what to say about option B. You could certainly always try to make her jealous by talking about other girls, finding a girlfriend, etc... but I try not to advise people to do that because feeling jealous really sucks.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      well I already know she likes me, that's not the problem. The problem is that I told her I liked her via text message and she said she just wanted to be friends, so I'm just trying to figure out the best way to get back to flirting hardcore with her as we did boyfriend I told her, cause by me telling her I kinda ruined the "chase" and now we just flirt a little here and there, so out of the three which is best to make her think: hey I miss him maybe I should gv him a chance to be more than a friend?
  • miki94
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    Over a year ago
    Just ignore her. She will start to wonder what is wrong and you will become one of the main things on her mind, whether she likes you romantically or not.

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  • Miss_Confused
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    Over a year ago
    Yeah ignoring her would probably be the one to make her miss you. But in saying so you would have to think twice about doing it because yes she might miss you when you're ignoring her but when you want her to get serious and give her attention it might be a turn off. In other words, she might just be in it for the fun of the chase but doesn't want to be caught.

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  • ShootingStar5
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    Over a year ago
    You should have an option for none of the above. The first two are game playing maneuvers and would turn me off. "A" would make me think they guy's not interested or that he's playing hard to get, in either case I'd move on. "B" would make me think he's a player or the type who enjoys making girls jealous and would get the same reaction as "A." And "C" sounds like the normal dating routine, but it wouldn't make me miss someone...

    The thing that makes me miss my boyfriend is not seeing him every day. Those days we spend away from each other make me long for the next day that I'll get to see him :) Same thing applied when we were still in the flirting/dating stage.

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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      yeah that makes sense, I just came off as too strong, and I should hv just kept playing the flirting game with her, I never should have told her I liked her in the first place
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      That doesn't really mean anything. It sounds like you're over thinking things. It's not really anything you DO that makes someone miss you. If you have a good time with somebody and they enjoy the time they spend with you. Then they'll automatically miss you when you're not around. So basically it's whether or not she likes you that will decide whether or not she'll miss you.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      well, I only see her once a week, sometimes twice a week. So, what do I do when I don't see her that often, this may sound childish, but we poke each other on FB everyday, would it matter if I didn't poke her back for a while, or does this really not mean anything?
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    Over a year ago
    I saw A and C.
    I would never ever ever want a guy to do number B, that's just sad and mean. And make me hate you, not miss you.

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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      well good, that's what I've been doing for the last week, so hopefully it will work, but she is kinda seeing another guy I think, which isn't a big deal, cause she said we just want to be friends but I kinda feel she is ignoring me for him, and if we are suppose to be friends, she really isn't treating me very nice, its like when she comes over we flirt, I tickle her give her foot/leg massages, we make eye contact and we smile, and she randomly texted if I hd ever had a girlfriend in hs or in college so far
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    Over a year ago
    The ignoring part rings a bell..but it's not always wise because if you really like her those feelings of her feeling reject might make her move on.

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What Guys Said

  • Surfinforlife
    2236  
    Over a year ago
    Be like Ryan Gosling from The Notebook. Show her good interest and then start taking it away slowly if she thinks she has you wrapped around her finger. She'll go crazy.

    Always enjoy life and look like you are. she'll wonder what's happening in your life and start missing you

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  • 1-3-2-4
    2998  
    Over a year ago
    I have a female friend who we have been talking about 6 months now and we would call each other so many times a day (I counted 20 times) that we ran out of stuff to talk about.. So we cooled off for about 6 days or so and she called back first telling how it felt like it's been forever since we last talked.

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    Over a year ago
    Jump to their left just as they pull the trigger.

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  • DonMichelle
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    Over a year ago
    Win the lottery!

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  • g1rl5a5k5uy5
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    Over a year ago
    change your number

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    Over a year ago
    Just wait 2-3 days every time before you establish contact.

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    Over a year ago
    personally I am going to try staying off fb for a while and see ignoring would be stupid..

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  • HansJosefGruber
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    Over a year ago
    Just let her know your life is going on perfectly fine without seeming as if you are trying to deliberately convey that message.
    Don't call her, text her, or Facebook her. Go to the gym, work on the way you look, go out and have fun.
    Chances are she'll see that you're not that eaten up over her and that she can't manipulate you.

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  • EZlats
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    Over a year ago
    I've tried A and C, they never do sh*t. A just makes it so she stops talking to you and you lose her from your life and C just hurts you because you keep waiting and she keeps looking for someone else. So I said B because hey, why not try going out with someone else? The person you really want to go out with won't date you so instead of getting hung up on them and staying single, look for someone else. And in case it doesn't work between you and the new person, if you can prove by dating that girl that you are a good boyfriend to have or can manage to make her jealous enough to want you and be willing to give you a chance, win win.

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  • Yeahhbro
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    Over a year ago
    Don't ignore her, go with other girls instead. If you ignore her, she will know that you are giving her too much importance and she will think you are immature. If you go out with other girls and still talk to her, she will know that you just don't give a damn about her and you have more options open which in turn will make her want you more since you are more wanted by other girls.

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    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      Well, I will text her if she texts me first, but I always hv texted her first, so I hv only been texting her when she does first, so how do I get back to texting her, I just don't want to sound random, like "how was your day" I want her to think that I care, but not that she is all I'm thinking about, even though she is, lol, I don't want to seem desperate, she is really the first girl I've texted that I've liked, lol, so advice in texting would be appreciated, thanks :)
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Don't ignore her that's dumb, she will KNOW what you are doing. She will be more confused when you are the effort on somebody else than her instead, do you know what I mean? Don't treat her badly, but just tease her, make fun of her you know, don't give her that much importance. Then you can go back and flirt with her.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      thats true, I didn't think about me intentionally ignoring her as giving her attention lol, that's messed up, my problem is that we only see each other like 2 times a week, so the only way she can see if I'm flirting with other girls is through FB
  • TheGodEmperorLeto
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    Over a year ago
    Science says ignoring a girl tends to make them more interested in you (on average). So ya, A would seem the way to go if you really wanted to make her miss you and crap. As for me? Meh, I go with C in life and don't care to play those stupid games.

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    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Tell her to f*** off cause she just showed how immature and weakminded she is. You show interest and she runs? She's an immature little girl even if her age says otherwise. Tell her to literally f*** off and find someone else.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      True, but she has been playing the flirting game with me from the beginning, and after I was honest and told her that I really liked her more than a friend, and she lost interest after that, so I tried the "real life" approach and I feel if I don't play a little game with her I may lose her forever, I'm leaning toward A and C as a combination, ignore her everywhere except when we are together in person
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    Over a year ago
    Ignore her, if she likes you she will miss you and you can get her to admit it (I did it and she admitted it, so now she can't say NO, I didn't miss you). The thing though, is why you want her to miss you? Is she being hot and cold? If so this is the best way to go, because you will show her that you don't go around playing her little mind games. Some people will tell you "dont ignore her, that's mean!" but seriously, some girls need help growing up and all you are doing in giving her that little push she needs. You gotta be willing to do it for a while, a week or two, if she talks to you, respond, be polite, but act extremely uninterested, don't initiate any conversations. After you've done it, go up to her, talk to her like nothing happened, then ask if she missed you and you will have your answer.

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  • martyfellow
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    Over a year ago
    Don't make a lot of efforto stay in contact, especially not at first, put the ball in her court. If you don't hear from her it wasn't meant to be.

    If you have to chase after her all the time and beg for attention, you're wasting your time.

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    • Over a year ago
      or how do I know if she just wants attention?
    • Over a year ago
      i'm in a similar situation. She's very attracted to me but is in a tough spot emotionally. So I backed off a lot. I don't text her. The only time I talk to her is over Facebook. and she initiates EVERY conversation. We don't have amazing conversations, but she starts it and I end it. I'm very positive and have shown that my life is going on fine.

      Is this looking good for me? or does the fact that we don't have deep conversations bad? I don't ignore her chats. I respond to them all the time
  • KERMlT
    25406  
    Over a year ago
    Get in the habit of calling every day before you goto bed then stop calling. Whenever anyone has this level of expectation and it isn't met, they have a tendency to miss the person (or more importantly that stimulus).

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    • Over a year ago
      omg you hit this!
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      i agree about some of those, but I think I'll leave the creepy sweater remarks out, LOL :)
    • Over a year ago
      Wow, those suggestions are creepy. X_X
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      Do the little things. If she has a favorite ice cream or snack, bring one to her. Ask her about her favorite shows. Show her you are interested in what she likes. Sincere compliments and cute pet names sometimes work. Tell mutual friends how amazing she is. She left a sweater over your house and you smell it when you miss her. Just don't sound creepy when you say it.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      well, we havnt known each other but 7 months, and we are pretty good friends for only knowing each other that long, I just want to know how to get that spark back, we still flirt when we see each other, its just different a little, she tries to hold back, but she can't help but smile and look me in the eyes when I make her laugh.
    • Answerer
      Over a year ago
      It all depends on how badly she wants you and opportunity costs. If she has many choices then she might not follow your lead. If she gives up easily, she won't chase you (or in this case miss you) for very long. She might even think you are 'just not that into her' like that horrible book suggests.
    • Question Asker
      Over a year ago
      i don't want to start calling/texting her everyday, cause I think that would make me look desperate/stalkerish, lol, I'm trying to make her miss me on her own
 
   
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