Me and this girl been friends and she says she'd never date me but we flirt

She is that type of woman that has more guys around and she gets something from each of them, that's how she completes her needs. This is how it sounds to me the first time. So if you don't act ahead, you will get friend-zoned easily, if you are not already (if kinda longer than a couple of weeks). It's obvious that she is keeping you under her control and from time to time teases you to regain interest for her. So do your move, or get rid of her. It is like you want: being into a relation ship, or find another girl, because Earth stinks of them;)) It has no reason to wait for a girl if she is not doing anything. Suggesting be direct at an end, like having a serious discussion about everything.

She won't hurry to get in a relationship with you because she knows that you will wait for her and do as she wants and if she has many guys around her (that you may not know about), this is a second reason, because she has from where to choose.

If it has passed enough time, it's time to do something now, or leave her. She must learn the lesson that it is not good to play, because she can loose. If you do so, she will fell bad for her theater and there are chances that she will fall to your legs in some time. You won nothing and you have nothing to lose and this is how you should do. Waiting is not good, nor in life!!

If you want more help I can give it, but ask give more detail.

Ask her out and hang in there.

It's possible to escape the friend zone in one piece, just hang in there. If she rejects you, try again in a couple of months.

I've dated three girls that wanted me to be just a friend. In my opinion, the best relationships usually start out as friendships. Ever seen "Breakfast at Tiffany's" or "Walk the Line"?