I get nervous around her!

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ok so there's this girl who I like so much but I get super nervous and shy around her and I never talk to her, I geuss I kinda ignore her when she's around  because I'm nervous but we always make eye contact every time we see each other but now I think she lost intrest  because I never talked to her (thats my geuss)  because now days every time were around each other its like I don't exsist and its horrible she like completely ignores me there's not even that first look to see me and then start ignoring there is just nothing but there were some days when we always stare at each other (this went on like everyday for more then a month1)and I was 99 percent sure she liked me but I couldn't find the balls to make a move . but its not like she ever talked to me? what should I do? any advice well help please and I know I have to talk to her but for me it seems impossible!?

sammyangel9991 · Accepted Answer

awww OK I am in the exact same situation as you! The guy I like acts this way too. I can kinda tell he likes me though because I've kinda learned how to read guys. It sounds like the girl is shy and she is waiting for you to give her some more definite signs that you are into her. Once you make it clear to her, she will come out of her shell and be more flirtatious and show more interest. Keep the eye contact stuff going and even make it more frequent. You seriously have no idea what a rush it gives us girls when guys we like hold eye contact. Trust me though, if this girl you like really likes you, she did not lose interest in you that fast. It takes me forever to get over guys (im talking 3 months to a year at least). I take it you guys are on winter break now. When you get back from break, start showing some more interest. She may actually think you are out of her league.

The reason she is acting like you don't exist is because she has a good feeling that you like her but she may also think you hate her because of how much you are ignoring her. I am not even kidding you right now though. This is the exact situation I am in. This is the exact way the guy I like acts. So yeah just ask me if you have any more questions.

chocolate-lover · Accepted Answer

well, you would have to make that impossible POSSIBLE !

its clear the girl is ignoring you consciously until you just make up your mind to take the next step, and get the courage to talk with her, or just to leave.

the only advice is to go for it, just before the girl lose hope and find another guy that would have the courage to make that move.

"she is the girl you like, and you would better feel comfortable being with her and around her than being nervous and shy. show her you are keen to keep her with you and its not only wasting time staring at each other"

Dimitrina · Answer

I say go talk to her before it's too late! I'm in the same situation and I can assure u- a shy girl won't ever approach you or talk to you first,she'd act really nervous around you and doing things that seem unnatural-like ignoring or avoiding you..If she's made eye contact with you then she probably has a thing for you =) but as she is so insecure of herself or whether you like her back she won't make the first move. Her strange behaviour doesn't mean that she doesn't like you just know this =) don't be a chicken and go talk to her! =)

Mystique01 · Answer

Please, go up and talk with her!

Just remember: Everyone is human. She is no better than you. Everyone's poop comes out the same end. LOL!

Sorry, I know that was gross, but when I think of people in this way, I find that I am MUCH less nervous in starting conversations with them.

We're basically all human.

Katarina · Answer

Maybe you should try to get enough courage to talk to her. I'm pretty sure if you guys were making eye contact everyday for a month there was something happening between you two. Just start a conversation with her, girls LOVE it (or at least I do) when guys start random conversations with them. Just be confident and you'll be fine. Good Luck!

Anonymous · Answer

omfg! you're the guy I like right now and I don't talk to him because he ignores me! who knew its because he's nervous. wtf. GO. TALK. TO HER. NOW.

Anonymous · Answer

maybe she's just as shy as you are, and is afraid to make the first move.

maybe you should go up to her one day, and just say hello to her.

if she responds, just start a casual conversation going!

if she doesn't respond, then she's either nervous, or a total b*tch.

so, just go for it!

if you're rejected, then just move on and find a good girl for you! :]

borinena1989 · Answer

Please be ur self just imagine that she is like a close friend and start talking to her. Even if it stupid you made the attempt to speak and she might just start considering  if she may want to get to know you more.

lovealways5657 · Answer

maybe she's shy or incredibly nervous.that's the way I am. I come off as a bitch, because I get so nervous around guys that I think I like. Girls really don't like making the first move, especially if it's an awkward situation. What kind of situations were you in where she ignored you?

Anonymous · Answer

there is just nothing to lose if you come up and talked to the girl ! i have the exact same situation with this guy I like, and I' m still interested!

IStarrr · Answer

Just take a chance and talk to her. You're an awesome guy, don't you want her to know that to?

Anonymous · Answer

Smile at her! If she smiles back you need to try and talk to her. Just start by saying hi. If she doesn't don't lost hope because chances are, she is just as nervous as you are!

Anonymous · Answer

give her a note saying what you feel since you  can't  catch her to speak with her.

Anonymous · Answer

just try and talk to her she would be delighted to find out that someone would like her and she might just like you back good luck

I get nervous around her!

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