If you reached the age of 40, and never had a girlfriend...

I think a lot of you are missing some obvious things about the USA female scene. I have been looking EVERYWHERE non-stop for 20 years for one single sober/clean non-smoking attractive female that would just talk to me - forget it - nothing in 20 years and I have plenty of confidence, good in bed, degree in ChE, my own carbon company for 20 years and these women around this Town I live in Red Bluff CA are 90% fucked up on meth/heroin/crack/booze/cigs or are trying to recover from these and are badly damaged abused goods. There are thousands and thousands of these women roaming around homeless in California now and they would rather sleep on a dirty mattress in the bushes, shoot up on meth with a dirty needle and have sex with another homeless meth jailbird with no job or car than have a roof over their heads and get clean and sober. Coupled with this is the fact that most drinking water supplies in the USA are contaminated with PFOS/PFAS (google it) which I believe is further effecting their fertility and sex drive. None of this has anything to do with anything any male is or is not doing correctly to attract a female. There is a proper match for every human on this earth - It's not just the women - everyone knows it, the USA has a major $100 billion/year illicit drug problem. Now add to this the Governmental subsidization of fatherless families. Women get more welfare money the more illegitimate children they pop out from different fathers and meanwhile the fathers are out of the picture or in prison suffering alone and often without proper nutrition. So if you really want to turn this situation around, get the Socialist Engineering Democreeps out of every city in the USA, clean up our drinking water supplies and immediately halt welfare payments after so much time and illegitimate fatherless babies. So the Democreep system destroyed the USA family unit for everyone - why they did it I don't know but the Blacks have suffered the most because of it. I will pray for our nation tomorrow at men's Bible Study. For myself - I have given up on ever having a female companion but I still have Christ. I am 58 almost 59 and not even a date in 20 years of trying. I'm sorry - I refuse to take the blame for that.

I am hitting 21 without one ever yet. And honestly I've thought about it. I don't know I don't ask a lot of girls out on average one a year, and every single one says no. I don't know I mean I have a ton of built up love and just really really really want to just love the shit out of some one, but no chance so far. But to answer your question it would matter how good life was. If I was bored all day and didn't like my job that much and didn't really like the most of my family. Fast forward where I am now I don't know man. I'd be close f***ing dam close. I mean I recently asked a girl out and she said lets stay friends and I drove around a few times thinking about it. I can't say yes or say no. What I can say? I know it would only happen as a rash mistake.