Would you consider dating me if...

I think you are worrying about all the wrong things. If you are so hung up on the fact that you are overweight, that is going to be the first and only thing other people see. If you are judging your character on how good a school you go to and how smart you are, then you are looking at totally superficial things and that would bring in your lack of self-confidence. You need to just be happy for being you. Be passionate about your hobbies, be yourself. Be likeable. If you focus on all the good things you bring, more like your sense of humor and interests, you will find yourself connecting with people on a personal and emotional level and then things like your weight don't even get noticed. I don't know how many times I've met people and not been attracted to them at first but the more and more I learned about him and got to know his personality, the cuter he became to me. So basically, the weight wouldn't matter if you were that cool of a guy and I liked who you were.

Well some women don't want 2 be with an overweight man, however there are some women who wouldn't mind either. In my situation, my husband was 6'1" and 315 pounds, and I got concerned for his health due to studies showing major health risks with being significantly overweight, like diabetes,coronary heart disease and stroke, metabolic syndrome, gallbladder disease, and others just to name a few. So I made an appointment for him with his physician and he has been taking medication for it and doing routine exercise about thirty minutes to an hour a day and has lost 55 pounds since December of 2008. This is only my situation, but I would recommend that you see your physician, it might be a thyroid issue also, so check with your doc.