nope, because she's still growing and it could leave scars in the long run, she could also get a sist or bad infection, ears and at 18 let her make her own choice. Its her body by then, your her mother from 0-18 she's under your care. if she says her friends have them done, say at 18 you can get it done because the earlier you get it, there could be more issues
okay at first I was going to say "no way in hell because it's considered a slut piercing" then I started reading the responses and remembered what all I did to get piercings when I was underage. Safety pins, cut off q-tips, Even so far as nails. Then all the wrong aftercare I went through and all the infected piercings I had to take out.
Trust me even if you don't like it it's much better to take your daughter to a professional. If she really wants it done there's all kinds of sharp objects she'll shove through herself in order to get them. Plus the pros can give you the proper aftercare instructions.
Take a honest look at your daughter. Who she is. What is her motivation for the piercing? Why is it important to her? What is the worst-case scenario? Also, try to rid yourself of dumb conclusions. So no, her getting a belly button piercing is not going to make her a whore. Just be realistic about her and what will happen if she does.
What? Can we work on our writing skills before giving advice? Thanks... - A month ago
Answerer
My bad chill dude. I meant No, because I wouldn't want to pay for it or bring her. She can wait till she's 18. My mouse-pad is super sensitive if my thumb skims it it can move the cursor highlight words, then they get deleted, words get typed where there not supposed to be etc. - A month ago
Depending on the personality of your daughter, I'd try the "You're allowed once you turn 18 approach".
But if she is the type that will do it regardless, I would allow her to get her belly button pierced, but on a condition. That condition is up to you. Like say: "I will take you there, but you have to pay it with your own money."
Trust me, you want her to confide in you as opposed to hide information from you. So many teenagers hide information from their parents because they are so restrictive. (credentials: used to be a teenager)
If you do let her get herself pierced, she needs to realize she won't be able to use anyother pants than hipsters, because the piercing will rub on other pants and irritate it. Because of that she will eventually stop using the piercing, it will close up and then it would be a waste of money.
Right now, I got my bellybutton pierced at 14. It's not too flashy , and its quaint. If your daughter wants it because she thinks it looks good, and she's comfortable with her body, then let her, as long as she's not going around with her shirt up, then who cares? It's the same as letting your daughter where a bracelet. Only it's more permanent.
I also paid for it myself, and care for it really well. I don't show it off. It just makes me feel more confident and I love it. It's really small, and none of my friends had it so it's obvious I didn't do it for anyone else except myself. - A month ago
Nope I would make her wait til 18. I'm 24 and friends that I have that got theirs pierced that young just end up taking them out by the time they turn 23 because they realize it's a bit pointless when you're an adult. If she turns 18 and still wants it then she can go by herself and pay for it by herself. It will give her a better sense of freedom and of responsibility.
yeah I would because I wouldn't want her being like "ohh yeah then i`ll do it myself!" and screw herself up. Plus the belly is not so bad I think it looks reallyy nice on the right girl. I got mine done and I think it's pretty damn cool.
nope, because girls want their navels pierced for only 2 reasons, because they think it'll make them sexier and/or because everyone else has it. neither one of those reasons are good enough.
no I would not. I would tell her she can go get it done when she's 18 and she doesn't need consent. she'd also have to pay for it herself. if she went and got the piercing done at some seedy place before she was 18, then that's her choice, and if it gets infected, it'll be her responsibility to have it cleaned and cauterized shut. if she's smart waits to have it done, then perhaps I'd pay to have it done by a professional when she turns 17.
Thanksgiving is right around the corner and just like the last year and the year before, you will most likely spend it with your family. And just like everyone else, you have a crazy uncle or an...
$20 Amazon Gift Card
Check out the winner of the last contest! Worst Pick Up Lines
Winner received $20 Amazon Gift Card
I'm turning 18 in december, and I really want to get my belly button pierced, but I'm afraid it'll look trashy. and don't know if it'll look good on...
I don't know if it's possible to use the phrase circle of life without instantly projecting the image of Elton John into everyone's head. Musical talents notwithstanding, I certainly don't want to do...
I just thought I'd speak out about this because I'm 18 years old my friends range from 16 to 19 but a lot of my friends and people I know are 16 /17! And to be honest I'm shocked that girls now a days...
Disclaimer: GirlsAskGuys cannot guarantee the accuracy of answers, opinions and advice submitted by members. Please use common sense when following or omitting any content on GirlsAskGuys.com