Would you let your 13 year old daughter wear a thong?

[Anonymous]

My daughter is 13 and wants to start wearing thongs. I think she’s too young.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

My dad loves shopping, he bought me my very first thong when I was 11-12. So what?

The daughters who aren’t allowed to do things, love to do them out of stubbornness.

My parents were smart to give me the freedom.

Knowing that I had freedom, I was never tempted to overstep it.

Things that gave pleasure of breaking a rule to other children, was nothing for me, because for me breaking a rule was never a taboo. I was encouraged and allowed to do it.

[molonski2]

Pretty much exactly how I did it , your Dad and I would get along , what gets me is these people who allow no freedom , do this do that , are not equipping their children for real life. How are they supposed to learn? If you make it forbidden , what's the first thing she is going to sneak and buy? You guess it -- A thong ! No big deal.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@molonski2 Yep, your daughters are lucky to have you.

[molonski2]

Ohh , kop khun krub ( Thankyou ) , I always suggested they think and work it out for themselves , one of the few but good things my mother did for me , I was doing other stuff that other kids could not , and what happened? Nothing.. independence.

[xKayTea]

It's just underwear, my mum always wore thongs before she started living commando, as a kid I found it weird, but she only wore thongs because she found them the comfiest type of underwear and she always said 'they feel like you aren't wearing anything, you can't feel them.' AKA she wore them for comfort, and as I get older I understand that now.

So no, I wouldn't really care if she finds that underwear comfiest, it also prevents VPL which would make me feel better as men won't see a VPL if she wears leggings.

If she was wearing them to show someone, or because of sexual activity, then I would be upset and talk to her about why being sexually active so young is not okay or safe.

[Bigjake1995]

Such a awesome reply

[AaronKrieger]

That's a conversation/topic for the mother to handle. I have no knowledge and business including myself in the underwear my daughter wears. For any son (s), it'd just be a conversation of "so boxers or biefs" and leave it at that.

[molonski2]

My daughter was certainly wearing them at 13 , couldn't care less , its just underwear that's all , no big deal.

[Jooying]

I myself don’t find thong comfortable at all, but it my daughter wants to wear them, I mean, why should I stop her? It’s a piece of underwear that being worn underneath clothes. Or does it really send out any signal due to wearing them? Slut is a slut no matter what she wears, and wearing thong doesn’t make anyone become a slut.

[Sour-rose]

Meh, as long she covers her ass up. I know of a girl back in the day who was flashing a thong... in high school. However, the difference is she covers her backside up. She wants to flaunt that she has a thong on, then do that when ya an adult.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I’m confused. Adults’ nakedness is acceptable, but not teenagers’? Should it be swapped?

[Sour-rose]

I say not. teens are still kids, and they shouldn't do something that could ruin their youth because they wanna do something so... risky

[lilBigPotato]

It's a basic piece of underwear so yes why not? As long as she doesn't come with some crazy lingerie request it doesn't matter, she's not running around in underwear

[MaddyJ]

I was wearing them at age 13 so it would be hypocritical of me to say no. That said some basic ground rules like underwear stay under are perfectly fine to lay down. If you just outright say no, she will sneak them.

[Reem12345reem]

yeah that's completely fine , unless she's wearing it to show it off in places then that's not the most appropriate thing to do

[Nobody770]

Do you wear them?

[Anonymous]

Who cares? She’s 13 not 8.

I’m a middle school PE teacher and thongs seem to be the norm once girls reach 8th grade. (Age 13). I see a bunch of bare butts every time I enter the locker room to tell them to hurry up.

[molonski2]

Why does you age say 25 plus?

[Nobody770]

Do you think a lot of the girls wearing them are only doing it to fit in, like the popular girls are seen in thongs?

[Apple1996]

Yeah I could care less they are just underwear. Ngl when I was that age I just bought my own bras/undies without my parents so never had to ask if could I wear them or not

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I think that's way too young. Even though I know people wore them in 8th grade and high school I think such undergarments should be worn in adulthood.

[Reichmann75]

Of course I wouldn't. I don't want my daughter to be a slut. Not at 13, not at 18, never. If she want to wear it, that's to show it.

[Nikki1989]

Look at men on here having a meltdown over underwear. Pathetic.

[molonski2]

I'm not melting down , I'm saying go for it , my daughter wore prior to 13 ! Its underwear , that's all it is.

[soe11]

Why should we stopped or prohibited to her, no tangible logic behind it.

It is only underwear not outerwear, so nothing to be problems at all.

You should let her wear, at same time educate her about real life.

[Paige90]

They are just panties! Most girls wear them so what's the big deal?

[AviatorTom]

I agree. 13 is too young for a thong.

Just curious. How does a girl wear a max-pad during her period when she's wearing a thong?

[BoopBoopBeep]

Tampon.

[Anonymous]

i'll be honest here and say yes. because i find those the most comfortable types of underwear. you don't have to worry about embarrassing panty lines and it's easier to put pants on.

[Opinion Owner]

also, wearing a thong doesn't mean someone is a slut... people really need to think about what a slut actually is. hint, it has nothing to do with underwear...

[HippieVeganJewslim]

As long as there’s something covering, like trousers, skirt, or dress, I’m perfectly fine. UNDERWEAR is something to be WORN UNDER outer clothing. No-one should be able to see thongs that are covered!

[Elliegirl]

I think it’s fine as long as it’s not for showing off.

[Paris13]

As Long as It Feels Comfy and ONLY SHE KNOWS IT'S THERE. lolxxoo

[Anonymous]

Oh hell no! I have a 13, almost 14 year old daughter and there's no way! I don't get what's with all these people that are fine with it. Are you guys parents?

[dreamstar72]

Why would care what she wears underneath her own clothing. If she is respecting her body and boundaries then it is her choice.

[DevikaButts95]

It cannot possibly send a signal on its own, I'd say it's fine.