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I'm together with a girl since more than 5 years. Since 2 years we live in the same apartment. The past half year a spent a lot of my thoughts about getting a full picture of my feelings. Sometimes more sometime less at the moment more, I do not know if there is any love anymore. I still like her she is a very nice person. Because of business I'm not at home for the next few month. It makes me said, that I cannot feel that I miss her. Most of you might think I need to talk to her. But it will hurt her a lot. I like her too much to hurt her and be honest. Is that maybe the last piece of love that stays with me? Did that happen to someone else out here? Will it come back?
Can love just disappear?
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I think you need to examine as to why you don't want to tell her the truth.
Truth be told, when I told myself in the past that I'd not rather tell a girl that it is over, it was /not/ because I really wanted to protect her feelings but rather was because I was selfish. /I/ did not want to feel bad over hurting her feelings so I figured I'll let it slide and eventually she would get the message. Well, in the end she still got hurt and I still felt bad but it is better to rip off the bandage than pulling it off slowly.
As for whether love comes back. Wish I could answer that for you. Only the stars know the answer. Perhaps your time away from her will be able to help you answer that question.
Love can disappear only if you make it disappear. Meaning, if you feel something for that person and don't want to hurt her you still love her, deep down. But its usually only your feelings that are making you think you don't love that person, don't think of it in a negative way, think positive. But you can also talk to her and explain how you feel about her.
Thanks all of you for your responses. I decided to talk to her and about my feelings. It will be a very said time. It will make both of us a lot of pain. I don't think it simply over but I have a kind of crisis about what I feel and what I want. Maybe there is chance we find a solution and can define a new way.
You need to tell her. You have a friendship and she needs to know so she can find the one that wants more. Yes, it will come back on you. Karma is a bitch so tell her.