This is for girls

It depends on the girls preference. Some think its totally wrong, others are worried about it, and some are really up for it. You can mention it, in conversation, but don't force it on a girl. It takes a lot of trust normally for a girl to allow a guy do her in the bum.

I love Anal and I have done it many many times, a lot of women are just prudes

i agree america sucks, but albania isn't exactly wonderful either...nothing good or bad has ever come out of albania...it's just albania. in fact, no one knows where albania is and no one cares about anyone in albania. so come and eat some german pussy, numb nuts.

I tried anal once and it was nothing like what I expected. It was just gross.

I've already answered this question, but after reading the following updates you bestowed upon us, I felt compelled to write a rebuttal. You are welcome to your opinion about Americans, but not all of us fit the stereotype. I am well read, travelled, I'm open minded, and I believe everyone deserves a chance to say their peace. I can agree to disagree. You on the other hand, are an immature child who believes that by saying " america sucks" will somehow be the ultimate cut down.

I hope over the next few years, when you learn how the real world works you'll discover the importance of accepting other people and cultures, and perhaps a bit of respect to women. Because I've found you to be very insensitive to our needs.

Best of luck...

Thats simple.. it hurts.

it hurts to much, its better to respect our wishes. how would you feel if we put a strap on and do it to u?

Ok girls think you are gay if you want to have anal sex with them. Some like anal but that's like 1 out of 10 that do and why are you so anxious to have anal

Anal hurts. Really bad.
and it's gross. juss saying.

Ewww are you serious? anal sex is disgusting! let alone the damage that can happen to the poor girl, just take what you can get, and stop being selfish!

IT SUCKS FUCKIN WALRUS BALLS! imagine sh*tting, but instead of going out, it goes in and out. You wouldn't like that very much would you? Just appreciate what we have and give you.

because it hurts a lot.

you know what it does hurt but my partner was really nagging about it so we started off with lots of lube and fingers first. if your in a relationship try to slowly ease ur girl into it. she will eventually like it when you progress from fingers take it easy and don't just slam ur d*** in because that will turn her off it. take it slow and easy with a lot of lube. if your not in a relationship the you'll just have to wait untill ur sleeping with a girl who has already done it. whichever way don't pressure ur girl and remember that its a very small hole you think about sticking A banana in ur ass and imagine how she is feeling

I know a lot of girls that don't have a problem with it, but then I know some who do. They think it's uncomfortable and un-enjoyable, and some think it's gross. It all depends on the girl though, but you definitely can't be selfish in bed ;)

it HURTS really really bad. and well to do something like that you have to make sure ur girl trusts you fully! and that you're actually trustworthy.

It fkn hurts! Dude...it's an exit only.

I would but I'm scared somethings gonna get messed up back there

I would try it but it does not turn me on but I also don't like it because your faces are not facing each each other with means no emotions.

i think it depends on person...most of the girls hate it...painful..disgusting..disease...etc...as what the other have already told you. but personally, I love it...i love the pain (maybe I'm weird) and the *different* feeling and yes most of my girl friends disagree with me. I think if you do have a thing with anal, you just have to wait till you meet one girl who enjoy it like me. you'll find one..

because it hurts, is disgusting, and can inflict damage on the girl's rectum

. why don't you put a dildo in your ass and see how it feels?

I have no problem with anal, in fact I love but I've only did it with one guy and I was with him for 5 years so yea. I wouldn't do it with any one else unless I got close to them.

Now, I'm a virgin. But with my hanging around different people with religion, I've heard different views that I plan on sharing. =)
One of my friends says that it hurts terribly, and wasn't enjoyable at all. She had only been fingered anally and still she found the pain unbearable.
However, to counter this, a friend of mine states that if you use enough lube, it can be quite pleasurable. They also say that those who complain of it hurting weren't using nearly enough lube. The vagina creates its own lubricant, but the anus does not.
My idea is that some women go by the word of others who have had bad experiences with anal sex, and are afraid to go through with it because of the pain it apparently brings. Also, the general idea of it, seeing as it's considered an unsanitary place (though it isn't necessarily; it's self cleaning, just like the vagina) doesn't seem appealing.
I hope this helps.

Because it doesn't feel good and it's disgusting.

i don't think anal is nasty I enjoy it alot. I have done anal bout 5 times.

Casting religious taboos aside, it's unclean and can physically damage a woman. He can rip her rectum, causing her to lose control of her bowels and bleed profusely. Also, you (and her) could transmit an STD. That, and for most women, it's just disgusting. Would YOU want your girlfriend to place a dildo in your anus? Try it. I don't want something I blow to be in my bottom. So choose, anal or a blow job. You can't have them both!

Its painful and just plain nasty. Haven't you taken a healthy sh*t today? Think about it. lol

It hurts more, and its the number one way to transmith HIV. How's that for an answer? Not to mention that going back and forth from vaginal to anal transfers bacteria that can cause infections and other problems in females.

NoWay any guy would have an anal sex with me.
First.. Most of religions, if not ALL..Forbids it! So it's a TABOO thinG in most of cultures!
Second..You can instantly figure out why it's a taboo, insulting yourself, to a guy? For his pleasure? What am I? A slave!
Also, if a guy JUST asks that means he's way to selfish and too horny to think about me or my feeling.. What about pressuring me into it? Haha, he'd be so DUMPED!
Hopefully, I explained how it goes in our minds ;)

Ok, you're question asks, what is wrong with anal? Well for me personally I find anal sex to be too dominating. It isn't about pleasing the woman, its all about pleasing the man. I like a little dominance in the bedroom but anal exposes far too much vulnerability in a woman. I'm guessing men like it because its really tight however there are other ways of creating a very tight and pleasurable experience vaginally. You are still very young, and the girls you are having sex with I'm sure are very young. Allow time for yourself to grow up and your peers as well, or find yourself an older woman who would be willing to teach you a few things.
Don't expect a woman to give you anal just because you want it, and never pressure a woman into doing anything she doesn't want to sexually. Peer pressure leads to real problems.
Just be emotionally mature about it. You are at that age where experimenting sexually is life's mission, but just remember that you are young and don't do anything stupid...
Hope this has helped.

I dnt think there's nuthing wrong with ano but its just something you don't give out all the time like I would like to be with you a long time b4 I guve it to you I mean its not that bad as long as you numb then you just get used to it

It's not appealing
It's painful
Most of the pleasure is really for the guy. I've heard that it's less painful for the girl the more times she does it, but I wouldn't go through with it in the first place
It's dirty..your ass has a lot of bacteria and wasn't made for intercourse
It can be damaging to your health

The fact that you are tall and the captain of the soccer team means nothing. Obviously not because you still can't get a girl to do anal with you, that should tell you something

Most people who do try anal usually have a few years of sexual experience under their belt, its not something people are usually comfortable with if they are just starting out

it hurts, and that's why girls don't want to do it. How would you feel getting something shoved up your butt? it fricken hurts like hell!

there is nothing wrong with anal sex, but I think most girls don't want to do it because it would hurt alot.(by the way I've never had anal so I'm not speaking from personal experience) I think that you would have to be in a serious relationship and there would have to be love and trust. if you do find someone that is open to the idea of anal sex keep in mind that its about her too and not just u. Make it as romantic as you can, roses, candles, and play a favorite cd. Also DONT FORGET LOTS OF LUBRICATION, condoms,and try to be as gentel as you can. If you start and she can't handle the pain be respectful and stop. Don't forget to do something nice for her.Try something she wants to do even if you don't want to.

Your cocky attitude will get you nowhere, I promise you that.

Most girls in your age range are either still virgins or just learning and experimenting with sex and mostly with their clothes on and in the missionary position. When you are with a partner you must be sensitive to their needs and their fears.

The difference between a good lover and a great lover begins with making sure the other person's needs are met and that your partner is comfortable with each position you AGREE to try. Communication is the key...listen and be honest with your request.

You might want to try this procedure in a few years, or with an older Woman, just remember you are still a minor.

Hope this helps.

nobody gives two cents for the fact that ur tall and whattt not.
its disgusting and pointless.

because that's disgusting? why would you want to?

For most girl's it's uncomfortable. I've gone as far as to allow fingering, and I just didn't enjoy it at all in any way. I know fingers are quite different, but that hole was just not made for things to go in, only to come out :) I see it as if it were made for things to go in, you could get pregnant that way. For many women it hurts as well no matter how many times they do it.

its kinda disgusting from both the girl and guys point of view.girls don't want something like that shoved up their rear end.and guys shouldnt want to put their thing up where number 2 comes out.

who gives a crap if you're the captain of your soccer team, how tall you are, or how old you are? you're an asshole. and you should put a zucchini up your butt if that's the only way you'll understand girls' opposition to anal.

Everything...
We´ll I´m sure there are a couple of girls that like doing it, but for a lot of us it just hurts and feels unpleasent and dirty...

girls your age are just starting to have sex, they probably don't feel the need to get very adventurous with it yet. by the time you are in your early 20's girls will be a lot more experienced (not in a bad way) and adventurous. you are expecting too much from children (not calling you a pedophile, just that the girls are most likely under 18)

have you seen the new video from rammstein 'german pussy'? hilarious.
and yes, german p**** rocks my **** off.

anal is terrible. and I don't what the hell your talking bout with the other stuff

alot of girls feel pain during it.

Dude... I once had to take a sh*t that was about the size of my d*** and it f***ing hurt like hell!
I mean do you have a single clue what the butt was meant for? I hope you enjoy sticking it up and pulling out to find you have last nights dinner on it.

DUDE... Try sticking even one finger up your ass the whole way, go on, try it.

O_O

I was in a reltionship many years ago, and I asked my partner at the time would she mind if we tried anal sex, and her response was yes as long as I shoved up my own anus a bottle first. Well to my response I said no way because that's gonna hurt, then she replied "now why would I let you do that to me", as it would hurt her just as much.

So from then on I never asked another woman as I understand their complaint, besides why would I want to do that unless I have homosexual tendencies (gay) because maybe that's your underlying problem?

You can't just dip your stick in immediately man, you have to work it up. Personally, there is no difference other than the gratification that you did it and now have crap on your johnson. What if she asked you if she could stick her finger in your bum? Would you do it? She doesn't see an issue with anal but you do? Ha ha, just some food for thought.

Find yourself a nice fag.
That felt good to say.
Ted

Why is anal so special? ill agree I did have my stage where I wanted it to (luckily I was single) but then I actually thought about what I wanted and I never wanted it since =D

Why is anal so important? If you really like that, try the other gender, maybe find out how it feels, so you know what you are asking for.

Good Luck,
James

Here's what they say: Anal sex is okay if the guy's size is below 6 inch. Longer than that, it's torture camp. That's what they say. This is what I say to you: Why would you want to do it with girls when you can do it with your brother?

Stick a dildo up your backside and find out why they don't want anal.
Curb your attitude internet tough guy, you sound too immature to masturbate let alone have sex.

"Alot" of relationships you say? Under 18? How many of these are imaginary? Don't worry, I won't tell.

As a very open minded person I'm not willing to do anything to her that she can't do to me, so she can go anal on me if she wish but it isn't something you just jump into it you have to prepare don't want to damage anything. This is low level freaky to me. "Giggity giggity alright"

I have to say that you my dear sir have horrible grasp on english grammar...and eww its anal that's why. The anus isn't meant for that...its disgusting

Anal sex is a little more advanced sexual play and it requires experience and self confidence to experiment in that fashion. Most women I know in their 40s enjoy anal sex from time to time if done well. Many of them were not up for it when they were younger for a number of reasons such as
1. lack of capable partners
2. possible or actual pain
3. the social repercussions of having people know that you had anal sex.
4. Societal tabboos against anal play
5. not understanding that anal sex is extremely pleasurable for women and men when done correctly.

Take your pick.

why go there when you haven't had enough in the stink to be any good. perfect your craft the old standard way before moving onto something like that. Trust me, there is nothing that overwhelming better about anal...

Would you like it if someone shoved a penis in your rectum?

'nough said.

They don't want "anal" because you are under 18. Get a few years on yourself before comitting to something illegal, your throwing your life away man.