Ok so here it goes, we were friends in high school, and after that we started hooking up. We have been hooking up for almost 2 years but about a year ago it changed, we started going on dates and doing other stuff. So now I'm really liking him and I don't know if he feels the same way. These are some of the things he does
I am usually the one to text him first but usually he will leave me IM's in the middle of the night so I have something from him when I check my messnger
When we talk its always for a pretty long time
When we go out he is always holding me
He wants to go on trips with me and my friends
He tells me things about him and his family and he remembers everything we ever talk about no matter how small
There is more stuff but those are the main things.
What do you guys think?
Update: I guess what I really want to know. Is if you guys think he sees me as more than FWB. What do you think?
4 months ago
Great you think? Remember both of you are still young, he's probably just having a good time, what happens if you don't give up the nookie and don't talk to him for a few days what happens I say test him before you have your answer.
Yeah but there have been times that we don't talk for like a week , and we don't do anything for a month, like fairly recently its been like a month without the nookie - 4 months ago
Answerer
Well looks like you guys are friends with benefits - 4 months ago
Question Asker
Yeah but its not like we aren't hanging out. We just aren't doing anything - 4 months ago
Simply put, yes. I would say that the two of you have something special that is worth far more than what you had when you were "hooking up." All the things that you mentioned above are no brainers to me that he is very emotionally connected to you and cares about you very much. If you feel the same about him, then I believe that you two have a remarkable relationship, and will continue to have one.
I think it might be something more than friends now. You just need to talk to him and see how he feels. Tell him how you feel. I think he is feeling the same way. Just be honest with him. I think you guys have a good thing going. I wish you the best but remember to be honest.
I went through the very same thing. R you more then friends with benefits? Honestly the only one that would know the answer 2 that is him. If he hasn't said it and you haven't brought it up chances are that's all you 2 are. However some people have this whole ''unspoken'' thing where they just expect you to know the deal could he be that type of guy? Could you two be exclusive without ever having said it? You sound like your on the whole boyfriend/girlfriend level. . . Maybe you should ask him.
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