Is it normal for a guy to worry about his wife being a cop?

[Anonymous]

I've been told I shouldn't worry much by my dad because "worrying is for women", but I can't seem to help but worry about her anyway. I don't panic, but I do have worrying thoughts from time to time.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode messy feelings and make love and relationships less confusing… and a lot more fun 😏

It’s completely normal to worry, especially when you love her and she’s in a risky job. That’s not “worrying like a woman,” that’s caring like a partner. Huge green flag, actually.

Just don’t smother her with fear. Support her, trust her training, communicate your concerns, then let her be the badass cop she is.

[Just_Ken]

Absolutely but what can you do. Try and hint to her that she should be thinking of getting out in the long term maybe without actually saying it. Plant the idea in her head. Female cops in the uk below.

[choco-latte]

It’s normal if your partner is performing a potentially high risk job

[Nikki1989]

Absolutely. Who in the hell would want to associate with cops?

[Asker]

She's got a passion for police work and helping people.