Can an atheist and christian be together in your opinion?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

Yes.
My wife and I were both raised Catholic. By the time we met, I had done a lot of research, eventually rejected religion and become more of a pagan with my own spirituality that seriously doubts the existence of gods and even an afterlife. My wife was exploring spirituality and gravitated toward things like meditation and sort of a Zen Buddhist attitude.

But she has been exploring 7th Day Adventist lately because she has a good friend who is into it. She goes to services on Saturday. She believes in a Creator of the Universe and is starting to believe Biblical prophesies.

We discuss that stuff sometimes. I share my knowledge of known science, history, archaeology and religion, and she shares her views. I respect her spiritual path and attempts to gain knowledge.
None of it interferes with our love and respect for each other.

I think the biggest problem would arise if the Christian was devout - the kind who gets angry when people say "Happy Holiday" during Christmas season, believed in traditional Christian values and traditions, and insisted that their spouse attend church and study the Bible.
A person like that would be even more of a nightmare if they had kids.

Some Christians are unbearable and completely irrational.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Yes, if the both of them can accept each other for who they are and what they believe , and not force religion on to each other , then yes it can work

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

If you want to know what the Bible says, it says no!

So, of you want to believe people that don't care what God says about it, then believe their opinions.

And since I am a born again Christian woman, and I go by what is written in the Bible, then I would have to say no.

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

Yes as long as neither one tries to push their beliefs on the other

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

My aim on GAG is to help people understand love, not limit it 😉

Yes, an atheist and a Christian can totally be together. The key is mutual respect, no lovebombing with “I’ll change them,” no forcing beliefs, no judging. Talk about future kids, holidays, marriage, values. If both accept “we believe different things, but choose each other,” that can be insanely strong and deep 💕

ohsheeT · Answer

I think anybody can be together if they want it bad enough

And it also depends on the reason why the atheist does not believe it also depends on the Christian and what they believe

Does the atheist believe that there is no God whatsoever or does the atheist believe there's no God that is made out of Flesh or is God everything

And the Christian
What is their belief is their belief that there is a old man up in the sky that's called God or is God everything and everywhere because see that's almost the same thing I guess it depends on your view on how you see things or don't see things but I also believe that two people if they get along and they are happy together no matter what their beliefs if there's respect and understanding for each other yes you can do anything

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I am a Christian and I had an exclusive relationship for two years with a woman who was raised Jewish but was essentially an atheist. I am also conservative and she is a liberal. I didn't try to convert her and she didn't try to convert me. I broke up with her because she had severe only-child syndrome and my patience and tolerance for her self-centeredness was finally exhausted.

AviatorTom · Answer

Yes, they can be together, if their non-religious personalities, opinions and philosophies aren't too divergent.

It may not be the best combination, though, especially if they plan to have children. The question of how the children get raised will likely cause conflict. The attempted answer of "we'll let them decide for themselves" rarely works.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Of course, as long as each respects the other’s values.

Purpleronnie · Answer

Sure why not , religion doesn’t have to be divisive.
Assuming working towards marriage then as long as they can agree to respect each others beliefs then it’s just agreeing how to progress through the obvious pivotal points in their relationship where their beliefs or lack of could cause friction:

Assuming they want children , how will they be raised?
Expectations around church attendance, holidays , prayer , and religious practices.
Whether either expects the other to eventually “come round” to their way of thinking.

Some couples engage where there is differing views as it creates interesting discussion whilst others it may create tension , it’s just how they manage it and allow it to become part of it all and of course what they want in a partner.

Shared values matter more than shared labels , but if faith is a core value in either person , the difference shouldn’t be underestimated.

Hope that helps 🤔

s0j7e3zyxc8v0 · Answer

No personally I don't think they can have a healthy long-term relationship Their beliefs and religious practices are too different christianity involves worshipping god praying going to church following religious teachings and for many christians faith is an important part of everyday life an atheist doesn't believe in god or religious teachings so they naturally have a very different way of looking at life I think these differences can become especially difficult when it comes to marriage raising children, religious holidays, prayer and deciding what values to teach their family It's not about one side being better than the other I just think that if religion is an important part of someone's life being with someone who completely rejects religion can create serious disagreements

Veronika_p · Answer

I think they can, but only if they genuinely respect each other's beliefs. If one person is constantly trying to change the other, or their values clash on major life decisions, it can be really difficult. Mutual respect matters more than having identical beliefs 🤔🤔🤔

abc3643 · Answer

Well, considering only Mormons get into Heaven but God is a Buddhist, it probably doesn't matter.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

It's possible, it's not a sin for a Christian to date someone with conflicting believes but God's word recommends to find someone with the same faith, there's many logical reasons why this its recommended and a success rate in marriage is one of them, it's very risky to have conflicting believes, mostly if this couple plans to have children. Let's not forget that since the believes are conflicting you can eventually expect some form of disrespect or lack of respect.

Med_guy1978 · Answer

I believe they could but it wouldn't work in most cases. If one of them who was Christian was quite strict and let's say for example an Orthodox Christian who wanted to abstain from sex for the length of the Easter fast. That would be a serious problem for some partners who are moderate Christians let alone atheists. Or let's say where one is mocking the other or doesn't respect the others views. I think it's possible but only through respect and tolerance.

lightbulb27 · Answer

yes, all things are possible with God. All variances cause issues that must be resolved.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Yeah my sister is catholic and she married an atheist.. the only ones that are hard to deal with is Jews and Muslims because they like shit their own way..

OneViewpoint · Answer

I'm an Atheist. No way I'm hanging out with Christians. I just don't have any respect for them.

lilBigPotato · Answer

As long as the Christian person is not too religious it should be no issue.

Nikki1989 · Answer

They can if both keep their opinions to themselves, but it is very unlikely a devout Christian person would do that.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't see why not. Everyone doesn't need to agree with their partner on everything. Mature people should be able to handle it if they like each other.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Can? I guess so. Should,  though? I don't think it's a good idea.

SeekerOfTruth007 · Answer

No. The Christian Bible contains at least one commandment telling you not to date, marry, nor even eat with unbelievers.

fonduegirl · Answer

together as in dating and marriage? nopes. for friends, it can work, since your friend can diagree with you more easily

slatyb · Answer

They shouldn't even be in the same elevator. It's between them. I'm secular and scientific. After divorcing I wouldn't date believers.

Abbycado · Answer

Can an @circushowcowboy and and @abbycado? then I say yes.

admles · Answer

As long as the christian can keep their beliefs to themselves and not push them on their partner, yes.

Sadly, in my experience, they can't do it. They say they can, and they might be able to for a short while, but they eventually can't.

brutalreality · Answer

Not sure. There would be a lot to consider. I don't think I can date a christian though.

Kassandra1994 · Answer

If you can strongly Connect with that person I dont see why not.

FreyaRed · Answer

Yes. Maybe 20% of Christians are religious nutters who really believe in fairy tales

worldscolide · Answer

My wife is catholic and I'm atheist, what does that tell you?

Billlewis · Answer

Yes. I'm an atheist and I just married a deeply religious Filipina woman.

confident666 · Answer

Yeah, is should be no problem if they love eachother.

molonski2 · Answer

It can work if they never discuss religion and respect the others view.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I cannot be with an atheist because our behaviors would be different plus she won't be able to celebrate with me the holidays because she doesn't believe in them!

_Jenny_ · Answer

@simslover92  Jesus said it’s better to be evenly yoked

loveslongnails · Answer

That depends on the "type of Christian" mostly. I don't think atheists can get along with really religious people.

Agatha01 · Answer

Sure if you’s don’t force your Beliefs down each other throats.

Shiprex · Answer

Yes as long as they are respectful of each other's differences

Ariesman81Nshiiit · Answer

Not seriously. World views are much to contradictory.

Staximus · Answer

If they both don’t try to convert each other and respect each other’s beliefs. Personally I see religions as cults.

Brady · Answer

Yes 2 different faiths 1ce were married for example. Compatibility, same beliefs, n othr things can keep them together.

Cocoboy101 · Answer

Pretty sure it can very intense in the beginning a can be an exciting thing that seems fun at the moment but will eventually become a problem when y'all have children but not always.

genericname85 · Answer

depends. if her everyday decision making is as delusional as her faith, that'll be a problem.

AngryCarl3 · Answer

In the same room? Sure. In a relationship? I doubt it.

Xawyx-2 · Answer

I think it's possible... but it requires compromise.

Iron_Man · Answer

That’s not being equally yoked I don’t see how that’s possible

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

I wouldn't say it's impossible, but it'd definitely be very challenging. I would recommend them trying to find someone with more like minded views.

samael_kmarty · Answer

I think yes it's much better then other religions. I hate Hinduism.

zagor · Answer

Yes, as long as neither is fanatical about arguing their perspective.

Still-alive · Answer

Absolutely. Just as long as they are respectful of each other’s beliefs

dudeinohio · Answer

Depends on the circumstances and the couple; but id say yes

smahala1991 · Answer

They can coexist but... They should not force views on each other

Sophiaishere · Answer

Yes if the christian id willing to compromise and not push their values and same goes for the atheist

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nope i would never do that the Bible says you have to be equally yoked

NoDecision · Answer

As friends, yes, as being married, no.

Anonymous · Answer

Together on biblical sense?  Yes I think so Maybe such couples fuck regularly

Texasgal95 · Answer

I really think it’s a situational thing honestly

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Yes me and hubby.

jazzy34 · Answer

Sure. Happens all the time.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

NO. Trust me, NO

canamlusciouslad73 · Answer

I strongly doubt it.

AgentG111 · Answer

Sexually? Absolutely!

LC75LC71 · Answer

That's up for them to decide.

lessthansane · Answer

That would be problematic

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