I have a issue with being jealous alot.I mean my boyfriend hangs out with his chick friends a lot yes most of the time there are guys there but it still makes me jealous.He can be a very big flirt and it scares me to death.We live a hour away from each other so I don't know what he is doing for sure.I mean any time he brings a chicks name up I get jealous.Well he was gonna go to the movie one night with a chick who asked him there and it was a movie late at night he had lied to me at first and told me it was a guy.He ended up not going but he was going to go alone with this chick who FLIRTS & LIKES him so it bothered me.Am I being way to jealous? He is a great person just I know he can be a huge flirt and all that and I am worried,Are there any ways I can get over being jealous easily?
I totally understand where you're coming from in that I am and have been jealous ever since I starting seeing my long term boyfriend 2 years ago. I'm sure you appreciate that there's nothing really you can do to stop him seeing other girls, but I don't think there would be anything wrong with asking about whether you could meet them too and all go out together. That way, you get to see how he behaves around them, and at the same time make them aware that he is yours. If he doesn't want to do this, it might be worth telling him how much it gets to you and say that you just can't understand why he wouldn't want you to meet his friends. If he cares about you he will be sorry for upsetting you and you can work things out from there. Good luck.
Ok well since he lives a hour away and transportation is a issue when he is allowed to use his vehicle for things other then school and work should I ask him then? Well has your boyfriend done that for you? He knows how I feel but yet he continues to bring up chicks and junk like that.Do you think he is just doing it to see how much I care for him and stuff? - 5 months ago
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Of course ask him. my boyfriend lives an hour from me but as he works his parents don't place such demands on him and he can come and see me when he likes. yup I asked him and to be honest I only felt I needed to go once to get an idea and then I knew there was nothing wrong. Try turning it around... you make him jealous with guys that you know. I'm sure you'll soon see his girls disappear. - 5 months ago
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Thanks! I have a guy friend I know he is really jealous about because this guy loves to flirt and junk with me.I was like I don't like your chick friends and all that and he goes well I ain't having them hang all over me and trying to get in my pants so you know I think he just thinks you know its fine for him to hang out with them since apparently they don't flirt with him.I think though When he gets his license I will go meet them.He refuses to let me meet this one chick friend of his though. - 5 months ago
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