my boyfriend and I have been going out for over a month now. about three weeks into our relationship we started experimenting with sex acts, but we haven't had sex yet. so far each thing we've only tried twice at the most i just want to make sure that that isn't all the relationship becomes. its hard to explain online, but I don't think I have to worry about being used for sex. from a guy's perspective, how would you start viewing the relationship?
from a girl's perspective, how would you go about making sure that you still spend time doing other things than hooking up?
yes . TALK to him. I completely agree with Euro raver. Make sure that you make it clear to him. Tell him you don't want this to become a physical relationship. and you'd rather have your friends around him too. And that he needs to understand that.
you should invite him to places that you go with your friends and let him know that itll be fine to hang out. cos the more you hang out . the more he'll get what he wants too. (its like motivating him . especially if you want to be with him that much)
Try to meetup at places other than your house or his house and try to get more conversations going. One thing usually leads to another and you pass the time.
If not maybe get a group of your friends together for a movie night. That way you guys can sort of cuddle but nothing too sexual in front of your friends.
If anything else, TALK TO HIM about it. A lot of the time us guys have no idea what a girl is thinking until it's too late.
Okay, if a guy lays his head on your chest and cuddles with you (he hasn't had sex with you yet), holds you close, kisses your forehead, gently rubs...
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When: 4 months ago
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