My girlfriend bought her EX boyfriend a birthday gift what should I do about it?

hmmm.that really should make you think who's really the current and ex bf!
caz u're saying her ex got a gift and a dinner .n You who's supposed 2 be the current boyfriend and you didn't get nthn.what should you do?.obviously she's not over wth that ex.althought its obvious that she's choosing and preffering him over you I always believe in giving people a chance 2 explain them selves .so I think you 2 should talk.tell her how you feel abr it.n how annoyed and disrespcted you feelabt her doing all that 4 her ex.
see! don't get me wrong.i believe in keeping ur connections wh ur exs as in friends but I also believe that if she's getting him a bday gift as a friend she shouldv'e got you smth more and much nicer that what she got him.like if he got a gift +dinner then you should get a much nicer or expensive gift+dinner+surprise bday party:).dunno.its just an example.u got the pic.i mean she should always put you infront of any1 else not 2 speak an ex

smack her. and be like are you dumb.?

2 me what you have said is that's she's got you right were she wants u. Its simple she's got this great guy at home payin 4 everythin while she is out flirtin with her ex and thinkin about him. She's gettin everythin 4 free when with you so why wouldn't she be with u?

All I'm sayin is unless she has an amazin explaination then she is usin you and treatin you like dirt when you obviously deserve better.

Even if her excuse is she was gonna get you a pressie next time she got paid isn't really that good enough as if she really loved you she would have thought of something and not be out havin dinner and buyin her ex things.

If this happened 2 me I would be expectin my boyfriend 2 surprise me with a holiday or somethin real big and worth while since what he done 4 his ex and miss my birthday then I would no he really cares 4 me after all I do 4 him. But really by the sounds of it she is usin u.

Do talk 2 her though but you should be preparing yourself 4 breakin up. You may love her but ur better off without her if she is usin you and find some1 who cares about you as much as you care about them. Good luck

I say you talk to her but, it almost sounds like she's using you. You mentioned how you pay the mortgage and the bills. She had no reason to buy her ex a gift and if for some odd reason she truly though it was ok then she should have bought you an even better gift. But, either way I don't see how it's justified.

WTF! I would be so pissed! Does she seem to love you otherwise, or is she just using you? From what you said, I'm wondering if she still has feelings for the ex, because why would she buy him a gift if she did not feel anything for him anymore? I think that's a bunch of bull crap! However, my personal advice would be that you need to be honest with yourself about this relationship. Is she giving you the love that you need? Are you giving her the love she needs? Is she attracted to you? Does she do little things for you too, like she did for her ex? What type of love does she show you - willingly? If she really doesn't love you and doesn't want to be with you, I would not say that that would make for a very happy relationship for either of you. Find someone who will truly love you for who you are. However, yes, I agree with the other guy who posted - you should talk to her and find out if she really does love you or not before dumping her. If she does truly love you, then you can keep her around, but if not, I would say dump her ass and find a girlfriend who is truly into you! Good luck dude!

I think you should talk to her before you jump into conclussions. Us males suck at making asumptions and when we do, we are 90% of the times wrong about these issues. Talk to her, it's the best way to find out what's up.