My guy and I have been together for a little bit more than 5 months now. When we first started out, we were just messing around until I moved in with him like, 1 month after we got together. Then I became his Girlfriend almost instantly. Spending day and night with him everyday, from spending like every other weekend. We were learning each other, and with us learning each other we found out, that there are a lot of things we don't like about one another. Him more so with my attitude towards the world, me more so with his attitude towards me about my views of life and the world. We've broken up almost every other week, me walking out on him because of his temper. He hasn't hit me, he says he won't because he wouldn't want to hurt me like that, but when a man gets mad at me, I automatically assume that's what's next. But, he said he won't do it, he couldn't bear looking at me all bruised up. We have shouting matches, we have disagreements, and every problem we've had, my mother knows about. Her and like the rest of the human population feel I should leave him, although they only know of the bad. But I feel like he's a man with a good heart and is just tempermental.
Pros: He cooks and cleans for me/us. EVERYTHING he does is for the benefit of us. He really does care for me, when dealing with my appearance, my well being, our future together (although he doesn't want me to go to college, at least right now. I wanna go to hair school anyway) the sex is good, he doesn't lie, he doesn't cheat, he goes to church with me, he's sweet when he's not mad, he's really working on that, I mean really...(I called him my ex's name, he didn't punch me out) I just love him right now, and what I see him becoming.
Cons: He has a temper, a huge temper. Like when he's mad, he's pissed off mad. (I can talk him down majority of the time, most of the time) He doesn't really trust me, although he acts like he does, if I get back with him, my family will practically disown me and I'm just shunned. I don't know what else is out there, and right now I don't want anything else.
I love this dude, please help. I feel like I'm going crazy!
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When: 10 months ago
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