Couple of exes, and my current ex, one way or the other, always tell me something to the extend of "tell me something nice"; normally I come up with something they did, or mention something I like about them, or give a compliment about their clothes, etc.
However, lately I'm just running out of ideas, so I wondered what are some nice things that girls always love to hear, no matter how old they get. Or what are some nice things guys have said to you that really had an impact.
For the guys---what are the nice things you tell your girlfriend? Thanks!
Well you see the secret is this: -first off, girls would prefer it if they never had to ask you to say something nice but then again there are lots of things you would prefer not to have to ask for either (like beer, etc. haha)
-But the true secret is pointing out the littlest thing that you wouldnt even think to say anything about/notice. Such as...hey I like it when you paint your toe nails that color or you know I like it when you do/dont wear eyeliner...just little things that your friends would make fun of you for saying basically. Funny but true. Just remember that the reason she picks out that outfit and tries to look her best in the morning is still for you....so keep noticing or she might start wearing sweat pants to get a reaction ; ) Good luck.
Just tell them how you feel about them. How you love the way they are, their personality not only their looks. Why you are drawn to them, what makes them so special. Don't neglect telling them about who they are not only how they look.
* don't ever change.. you are perfect the way you are. * being here with you is the only place I ever want to be * you are gorgeous * you have the most beautiful eyes they look like ( blue = the ocean; brown = chocolate ) * you're the most beautiful thing I've ever laid eyes on * I love your smile * I love it when you laugh
anything that you think. don't lie about anything.. if you think she has eyes that look like the sun to you, then tell her that. and then tell her how much you LOVE the color or the sun. or if you love how something makes her look, like you think the shirt she is wearing is gorgeous on her.. then tell her that.
Have to admit, your question made me giggle. "Need help being nice, runnin out of ideas" I donno. anyways do they really say "tell me something nice? Sounds like that person is either insecure, or trying to find out if you're into them. Try a gesture- get her a present for no reason. Instead of saying something do something. girls love surprises. I would rather a guy take me somewhere We've never been or have some kind of surprise rather than hearing the same boring BS
I agree with allangel77. I do think it all comes down to who the woman is as a person and what type of love language she enjoys. It sounds like you have been with women who mostly enjoy "words of affirmation". No matter what type of woman you date she desires to feel cherished and that you genuinely enjoy being in the relationship with her. And like allangel77 said, only say what you truly mean, because its pointless to say something to get something in return and its empty. Just trust what you enjoy about your girlfriend and let her know often.
Girls don't always need to be complimented... what we want is to feel like you are interested. so you don't always need to say something nice, instead you could kiss a girl on the forehead, or say "hey cutie" when you walk in the door. if your girl is stressed at work you could say "i can't imagine anyone else being able to handle what you do at work!" whatever you say, make sure it's from the heart. even if she is searching for a compliment, only say what you truly mean. girls can tell when you BS
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