There's this guy I dated over a year ago, and we broke up because of reasons he never told me. since then, we've talked and been more aquaintances than friends. since starting school in the fall, we've been becoming better friends and spending the night with each other on almost a weekly basis (in a romantic way).
In December, he started dating a girl and we've still talked as friends but haven't spent much time together because we've been busy with break/christmas/family...ext. we went out with a group of friends tonight and all I could think about is how much I want to be with him and how much I've missed him. the whole time out we were laughing and flirting like we always do. we're finally becoming the close and great friends i've been hoping we would be...if I can't have him as a bf I want him as a close friend. I realize it's been over a year that we've been together and he's seeing another girl, but I truly feel I am in love or love him. what I need to know is whether I tell him how I feel and risk losing our friendship or try my best to ignore my feelings and attraction towards him.
If he is a true friend then it should not matter what you tell him, your friendship will remain. Myself , if you are shaky about the relationship that you have with him then I would try to hold your feelings until you are certain how he is feeling about you.
If nothing else date another guy and see what this does to him. I know its not the nicest thing to do to the new guy but if your honest with him you should be alright.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 10 months ago
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