Lenapie23225

What do you do when you don't hear from your boyfriend for a few days?

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Lenapie23225 (Age:Under 18)     When: 4 months ago
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I haven't heard from my boyfriend since after New Years. I don't know what to do.


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madhatters4
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4 months ago
doesn't sound like a good thing. how long have you been dating? have you ever gone this long without talking? did you have a fight? Have you tried to call/text him? If you haven't tried to contact him you should do so

This sounds bad either from a personal (his own personal life) or a relationship standpoint

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  • Question Asker
    4 months ago
    Thanks
  • Answerer
    4 months ago
    yeah that's weird. It makes you wonder if he's OK or if something else is wrong. good luck whatever happens!
  • Question Asker
    4 months ago
    I've been dating him for almost 2 years. I've tried to call him and text him. I've tried to inbox him too.

What Guys Said

  • xpertadvice
    251  
    4 months ago
    he made a new year resolution of not cheating on any one so he dsnt want to be in touch..

    what you can do is move on and analyse tht year boyfriend is a jerk..

    because he could have just sent you a text if he really wanted to be with you ..

    sorry but that's the reality.. tc babes..

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      u sound like you know everything
  • rts10272
    351  
    4 months ago
    You need to contact him and see what's going on.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      ok
  • COBILL
    4  
    4 months ago
    Call Him ! He is waiting for you ! He wants to Know that you really want him. When you call just tell him you miss him but don't ask why he didn't call..

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      ok I'll do that
  • TheBattMan
    3006  
    4 months ago
    Did you call him?

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      yes
  • Frost2013
    81  
    4 months ago
    He's grounded from life. Simple as that.

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      4 months ago
      ok
  • DodgersGM
    1036  
    4 months ago
    He could very well be thinking the same thing. It's like as game of relationship "chicken" where both people are worried that the other hasn't called, and in reality all that's needed to solve the issue is to make the call yourself.

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      When I did he turned his phone off
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    Anonymous User
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    4 months ago
    you pick up the phone and call him.

    omg no offense but what is with girls and this "he hasn't called in X days. what do I do? does he still like me?" stuff.

    I mean really girls do you really think it's going to lower your value or make you seem needy to make one phone call?

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    • 4 months ago
      Thats not good that he turned hi phone off ! Sounds like he has moved on. Good luck ! Its a new year !
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Ok
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      oh. my bad. try going to his house then.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      I did call him, text him, left voice messages. I do try and I am patient
  • Drebin900
    479  
    4 months ago
    I would relax think "Well if he doesn't talk to me in the next 4 or 5 days maybe there's something wrong."
    Who knows maybe somethings happened and he's really busy and he just hasn't thought to check his phone and inbox

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      Ok
  • rocksongwriter
    9612  
    4 months ago
    Call him.

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    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      Is he still alive?
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      I've tried and he doesn't answer
  • Mrcdinis
    820  
    4 months ago
    I would think everything bad I could xD

    Is she dead? Has she dumped me? Is she alright? Did she made some mistake and can't talk?
    I would go crazy about it xD

    It is normal that you are worried, but it may be so many things that the only solution is to actually talk to him. if he doesn't show up, try to speak with his family (do you know someone of his family? Mom, Dad, Brother, Sister, ...)

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      I know all his immediate family. But I can't get ahold of him
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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    4 months ago
    As in he's gone missing? Or has just not contacted you?

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      What elements of immaturity?
    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      You are under 18 so there could be elements of immaturity involved.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      He hasn't contacted me.
  • ryanontario
    12060  
    4 months ago
    obvivously some communication issues here , how would you normally contact him ? on cell phone ? internet ? why is it so hard to get in touch with him

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    • 4 months ago
      Well he hasn't contacted you for well over a week, so maybe you're no longer in a relationship w him anymore and he's just in one w the ex girlfriend. Guys do this cowardly break up thing where they just stop talking to you. Sounds like this is maybe what happened w you. At your age guys are incredibly immature. I would move on if I were you.
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      But if he was why waste my time trying to be in 2 relationships
    • 4 months ago
      Maybe he's back w the ex girlfriend
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      I usually call him on the phone. If I don't call him we talk on the internet. But lately his Ex girlfriend have been telling him if he is stressed to turn his phone off. I'm trying to figure out why is he listening to her and not telling me his problems
 

What Girls Said

  • crushed120592
    580  
    4 months ago
    oh wow that would be so nerve racking D=, if you have called him and sent messages (r you sure he turned his phone off or could it have just gone flat?). Then again seeing as how you are under 18 years old I am thinking he likely lives at home, meaning if he was missing his parents would have notified the police and you would think...you. It sounds like he is being immature and just doing the old "shut it out and it will go away" thing =[

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  • douchelord
    1691  
    4 months ago
    break up w him, find a guy who doesn't still talk to his ex

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    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      ok
  • Cottoncandydreams
    6459  
    4 months ago
    spank him

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    • Answerer
      4 months ago
      ahahah
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      I would spank him if I could
    • 4 months ago
      lol
    • Question Asker
      4 months ago
      No matter how much I want to spank him I can't.
 
   
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