Why does she keep making excuses?
This girl and I have known each other for about 8 months, and have gone through a lot of stuff together. We recently started dating about 2 months ago, and every time we've hung out, we have a great time. The chemistry is there, the physical attraction is there, we sahre the same interests and we definitely vibrate at the same frequency. Only thing is, I'm ready for a relationship with her and I don't think she is. I've been single for a couple of years, for various reasons, and I really feel like I've found the *one* within her. And I don't talk to her about it a lot, but whenever we do talk about making it official, she always makes an excuse not to. She either wants to wait longer, or she wants to think about it. I don't wanna force anything between us, but I'm really just tired of hearing the same old responses from her. And quite frankly, I'm ready to move on with my life and I'd love for her to join me, but she keeps giving me excuses. I just don't want to continue waiting for her. We were hanging out last night, and I explained to her how I felt, and she just said that she wanted to wait till after Valentine's day, and to "go with the flow", and I really feel like I've been respectful and patient with her. But at the same token, I don't want to wait for her anymore. She won't really clarify why she keeps avoiding officially entering a relationship with me, but I'm at the point where I don't want to wait for her anymore. She says she loves me, and I know she does. So what's the problem?
Am I being selfish? Should I continue waiting for her? Is she playing games with me?
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