My brand new boyfriend went skinny dipping/hot tub with friend and girls?
I have a boyfriend since 3 months, but he likes me for over a year. I needed a bit convincing, because I wasn't sure if I wanted a relationship and I didn't want to get hurt. Because this is one of the sweetest guys I met, I decided to get exclusive after a while. A bit later I told him I was in love with him in a text message when he was on a guy-weekend and he responded he was really happy.
A day later I heard from a mutual guy friend they met up with a group of people they knew. All his single friend and he, plus two girls of the other group (that existed of guys and girls) had a skinny dip sesh in the lake, and later went to the sauna. He ended up with his best friend in a bathtube, naked. Not even his own house but the house of the other group. They both had a girl on their lap, and sat like that for a long time. They were holding each other because it was a tight fit, but he told me when she tried to kiss him he told her he had a boyfriend. He left the bath when the other couple took it to second base and went to the shower, naked as well.
For me he crossed the line when he went up with the single guys and the girls instead of staying downstairs with his other friends. Later he crossed another line by having a girl on his lap in a bath while being naked and holding on to each other.
Allthough he was really upset afterward and told me he wanted to tell me anyway (even though our mutual guy friend told me first) he told me nothing happened and he's very sorry. So I kind of forgave him.
He told me he thinks I'm really hot, she's not. He didn't like her or wanted to make out with her and he's really really in love with me (which I kinda believe since he tried so hard convincing me to date him). So it doesn't make sense to me at all. Why did he do it? Can I ever trust him again, since stuff like this happened when he's into me and thinks that girl isn't even hot?
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