Let's just say in a social setting, you are mingling with other guys at a party.
I was recently at a golf tournament with my wife, and she was sitting on a guy's lap to pose for a picture. The space was very limited, and it was hard to get everyone on the picture. She did got off him when another guy left the seat to go to another table.
Is this acceptable? It was alright with me, until my friend made a great deal about this. It was an innocent thing to me, but I kinda feeling odd after my friends comment on it. Let's put it this way, do you girls only sit on guy you who you are interested sexually? can it be a innocent thing?
How come there's no response from guys, is this forum mainly for girls?
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Generally the answer to your main question would be a big no. You don't sit on a guys lap if you are married. Sitting on a guys lap is a major flirting move and would be a pretty big come on. But in the situation you've described it sounds acceptable. I would look at how her body language and behavour towards him was while she was sitting on his lap. Were they looking each other in the eye? Paying each other attention? Or sort of looking away and facing away from each other as if a little uncomfortable with the physical closeness? That's the key question you want to ask...0