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I feel like my husband hates me after only 5 months of marriage? (Page 2)
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Wow it sounds as if he wants out. Are you willing to settle? A loveless marriage isn't worth it girl. Y'all have no kids so get out while you can. You're still young, I'd rather be divorced which I'm seeking than be trapped and miserable with a man who doesn't love me. I wish I had better advice to give you but I don't. I wish you the best as I know it's hard.
Sorry to say but it seems like your relationship is only bound by paper at this point and otherwise you're pretty much separated and considering his harshness there's probably no way to reverse that
Saying you look like you're dying tends to mean you look ridiculously skinny, do you eat enough?
Your husband is getting nothing out of the marriage and is unhappy with your behaviour since. Many women pre-wedding will present their guys with an idealistic fantasy of how great marriage will be loads of sex, lots of fun, home cooked meals, shared expenses, shared responsibilities, shared rent but once women shackle their men with that gold band that picture is shattered by those now wives who now feel they can get fat and yolk their men to the plow and control and dictate how they live. Sounds like your the problem.
Speaking from experience?
@snowangle yes I divorced her ass and immigrated. Heard she lost the house because she couldn't pay her mortgage and the repo guys took the fancy car she had to have. Im sure my former inlaws love having her back living at home even with the shame of divorce.
Its a done deal. Your husband has changed. I have no idea why, but your marriage is dead. He may be mentally ill even.
It sounds like you have total grounds for claiming you were married under false pretenses. Your husband is not acting like the man he portrayed himself to be and sounds unstable at best. Just remember, your well being comes first. Draw your line in the sand and see if he's willing to work with you within that. Wishing you the best, hun.
Uh oh... emotional issues have turned up. It could be because of your insecurities or his. Hinestly the reason yiu were attracted may be because of these underlying issues amd they need worked out... possibly childhood wounds... could just be differences in people and values Get a marriage counselor asap... not all are good so try several. I have one if want to talk w them.
His anger is rooted in his base emotions... which are not good.
I feel like we're missing something crucial that occurred but if you're (both of you) determined to save this marriage then get help, going to marriage counseling doesn't mean you've failed, means you're fighting to make it work.
Sounds to me like the feeling has escaped him, whether he is applying his happiness to someone else now is questionable.
If I were you, I would give him the boot for awhile. You both need some time apart and some counseling.
However, it appears as though he has made up his mind. A marriage is 50/50 so if he is out already then consider getting it over with. It might make you both happier!
2 things you should never do to destroy a good relationship..!
1.) Marry
2.) Have a baby
These two things have proven to destroy many gr8 relationships..
So the thing is that I think your husband is not in love with you anymore... Its a tough situation really I men hire can a portion change in 5 months?
Oh my gosh, if you think back, do you know what triggered his abnormal behavior? As a married woman, I'm going to say that you don't deserve this.
Life is already tough, marriage is supposed to make it easier..
Know your self worth. Love yourself! Try and talk to him about it? Maybe see if he's cheating on you?
Then change your behavior around him!!! And without warning
This is what you do: stop telling him that you love him and start having your own life outside of the relationship as in hang out with friends, see family, have hobbies. You'll be distant but that's OK
I didn't even read all of this, I didn't need to. Your husband is not happy and may have his eyes on someone else. Sounds like he is smoothing the path for a future break up.
You don't deserve that at all. I know how you feel I'm currently having the same problem with my boyfriend's brother well best friend who probably told my boyfriend that I'm being a bitch to him. In my opinion sometimes I think guys don't really know when they have something good and they end up destroying it weather they do it themselves or the friend or friends talk them into it. Just take time to figure you out and maybe after a while you will find someone who will treat you better.
He's abusive af. Do you really want to spend your life with someone who doesn't care about you? if I was you, I'd leave him.
YouR hubby might be listening to his separated/divorce friends they could be giving him ideas because their relationship went south. Or he's waking up knowing he's now a married man and he's freaking out after only 5 month. He might want out.
Who cares if you separate at 23?
YOU SHOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT YOUR MENTAL AND PSYCHICAL HEALTH...
How long did you know him before tying the knot?
When you get married at a young age or too soon, it can begin to feel like bondage more so than a beautiful union between two people.
i know this is bad. but you should divorce this guy. he has issues.
Wow what the heck is wrong with this guy.. It sounds like he might be trying to push you in to divorce or something similar.
With that wall of text you just posted I hate you too. Really? Use paragraphs please.
There are paragraphs they just aren't seperated.
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If there were no paragraphs, then i myself would not have read it.
I hate blocks of writing.
But, while block-like in shape, the question does have paragraphs. If it didn't it would be an actual block without the indents.