Ok, I am in a slightly bad mood so my answer is going to be sort of grim. Anyways, I don't think people should sleep with so many people! that is a seriously bad thing. I mean, I never slept with anyone so my guy cannot say I will give him an STD or have a secret child. He has slept with someone who has slept with 100+ other guys (who knows how many) and the 100+ other guys she slept with slept with another 100+ other girls, get what I'm saying? That's how STDs are spreading. I should have stayed a virgin. I should have never gotten married. I had been having some internal bleeding and I got it check out 2 hours ago and they said I smelled funny and gave me a ton of medicine. I don't know the total results yet but if I have something then it is from my husband who has slept with a whore who slept around with other whores. OMG! Why do that? If I find out I have and STD or something, or even if I don't and I just have this scare, why put me through this scare or why give me a disease if he loves me so much? OMG! I am really mad right now. I never slept with anyone, so I don't have anything. I got checked out in July 2010 and I have NOTHING. so now what? Don't go sleep around... gee! What is so hard about that. I will never sleep with anyone but this one guy. If I slept with another guy, and he is a virgin then it would be like he slept with me, my guy, my guy's ex and his whore and all the guys who slept with his whore and all the girls who slept with her whores... I'm just really mad. I think you shouldn't cheat. You don't want to cause her pain. Just sit around and wait for her... be faithful to her so that she is the only one that deserves you, you truly love her right? She is the only one you want to admire right? Then just save sex for her. Don't go sleeping around, who knows if you will contract a disease. Again I am in a really bad mood right now. I mean, yeah I love my guy and if he had to die for a sin then I will die in his place... yeah yeah yeah... but seriously I wouldn't want to be punished for a sin he did... but that's what love does... I mean... HELLO! Do you want to be punished for a sin that your one night stander did? Like for example, you sleep with someone and you don't know 100% sure she is clean (because she probably sleeps around, that's why she is sleeping with you), and then you get the STD, then you are being punished for her getting the STD because you now have the STD and you don't even love her! If that makes any sense at all! Whatever... Ok... I"m done venting. have a great day.