Is this his way of gauging my interest?

[Anonymous]

So me and this guy, C, have hung out a couple times since we started school. he lives on the floor right above mine and his best friend, G, lives on my floor. Anyways about a month ago we met up after this party and I said I was going to climb to the roof of this building like we had the night before. He told me since I had a shot hours before I wasn't good to climb it and took me all around campus to find somewhere else to look at the stars.Once we got there all the drinks he took had caught up to him and I helped him back to our dorm building. He came over and thanked me for taking care of him the next morning and life went on.

Recently I got a projector and the whole floor has been watching movies on it in the spare room. The past few times C and I are lying next to each other during the movies. On my way to a party last night with C, G, and G's girl, C and I were walking together ahead of the other 2 and just talking. He shared his beer with me and made sure I was on the side away from the cars because "ladies shouldn't have to worry about being hit". The party got busted right before we got there so we turned around with this other group. On the way back C gave me a flower which I put in my hair and then I ended up across the street with G and G kept asking me "What's up with you and C? I saw you two cuddling" I said that I didn't know and something about going with the flow.

When we got back he had me come with him to make ramen before we went to the spare room and I almost fell asleep with him watching movies, instead I put my blanket on him and went back to my bed and let him sleep. Now I'm wondering if G asked me what was up with us because C has said he likes me or what.

[cheeky_starfish]

It sounds to me more like his friend has noticed how you both connect well together when you're out with him and maybe it's obvious to people that you both get on well... Although whether he has actually spoken to his friend about you or not can not be certain unless you end up finding out for sure! lol

I would take the things he says to you, does with you and does for you as a sign of how he feels about you and concern yourself less about whether or not he's spoken to his friend about you. It does sound like you get on very well with this guy though, so I see no reason why this can't be and already hasn't become more of a relationship that people would know about, but either way things definitely sound promising between you two... :o)

[Asker]

Well I've spent much more time with other guys than I have with C and other guys have been much more touchy feelly with me which is why I'm wondering if they've talked or something

[cheeky_starfish]

Well maybe that's just the way he is?... I mean all guys are different and maybe he's just the less affectionate type?... Although from what you've said it does sound like he's quite into you, but I suppose you'll not know for sure until one of you takes the plunge and asks the other out as to form a proper relationship out of this... :o)

[Asker]

Well I ask him to hot chocolate and then he took me to breakfast instead and I thought it was just a friends thing but then he paid so I don't know

[cheeky_starfish]

Well he must like you to do that and all the other things you have mentioned previously too... I hope it all works out for you... :o)

[cheeky_starfish]

Hey, thanks for best answer... I'm more than happy to help, especially given all the advice you gave me regarding that situation I e-mailed you about recently, if you remember?! lol

[Asker]

Of course I do and thank you.

[cheeky_starfish]

Ok, thanks... My situation didn't quite work out for me as I would've wanted (in fact how the girl won was the last thing I would've wanted!), but I really appreciated your advice all the same... :o)

[supersean123]

Possibly. My guess is as good as yours. But given everything you've just said, you're high on his prospect list.

[Asker]

So should I try to pursue him? Quite a few other people have said they've noticed something between us and I definitely find him attractive.

[supersean123]

Should you try to pursue him? Do you like him? If yes, why not? Give him a sign. Invite him to your projector room for movies more. Hang out with him more. Get drunk and make out with him. Haha do what you gotta do and see how he reacts. Then you'll know.