I have some regrets in my life about what I did when I was in a serious relationship with a guy, but I new it was business only. I was able to separate business from pleasure, but now that I am older and more mature there are things that I wouldn't do and there are things that I wouldn't put up with from a partner. one of them is exactly what your girlfriend did to you. I wouldn't waist your time trying to even talk to her about it. I would follow the no contact rule. if you go back to her she will more then likely just do it again and blow it off like nothing ever happened. love your self first most women will respect you for that other wise they will just take advantage of you all over again.
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But flirting and having male friends is a different story. Flirting shouldn't occur, but I have guy friends and we call and text, etc. I am very open with my guy about what kinds of things we talk about, so I'm not keeping secrets. He also has girls that he's in contact with. I guess we have this thing called trust in our relationship. I'm not saying you were totally wrong but I think just kicking her to the curb might have been rash.
He flirted and she gave him her number? Dumping her was smart. I'd say it's only appropriate for a guy to exchange numbers with a girl in a relationship if it's important, like a school assignment or a coworker that needs to call just in case. Flirting and giving a number means now you're going to be wondering if he's texting her on the DL and such.
She's only good for a hookup now, otherwise, avoid.
It wouldn't really bug me. I'm not going to be controlling and not let her make friends. If she cheats, then it wasn't meant to be was it? People don't realize this
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That’s single girl behavior. She can do it. But people who support her in the idea she can do it have to accept the conclusion it’s street behavior and she has no further right to expect one further moment of serious commitment from you. Hey. Play along. Be “friends” whatever TF that means and just realize there is zero serious commitment from her. Let her go bro. Zillions of smarter, hotter, more emotionally intelligent women on the planet
Can't say I disagree with what you did. Flirting and giving out numbers isn't something I would tolerate in a committed relationship either.
You were right to do what you did.
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