I’m asking because this is basically happening to me. I’m training to be a healthcare professional. I am very gentle natured, and I feel it a hard job to manage. I get extremely exhausted and I have to have responsibility too, which doesn’t bode well as I feel I could make mistakes, especially towards the end of a working day. I don’t want to shy away from work, I feel like I want a job with less responsibility.
I do have a side hustle which brings in some extra money. I am always cleaning, cooking for my boyfriend and I feel I give a lot in the relationship.
I’m scared that he will think less of me and respect me less. How do you guys feel about this? Would you look on your girlfriend in a bad way?
Guys, how would you feel if your girlfriend/ partner quit training for a prestigious job for an easier and less paid job?
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If your job is separate from your education, I would axe the job and work as a tutor for money instead. It’s a relaxing job in comparison to others and pays the same amount as waitressing. I would also axe any non professional and unnecessary hobbies to save time, and I might tell the boyfriend your tired and want him to do a few more chores than he previously did to support your career so you can both get more money after you marry.
that happens.
Those types of jobs can suck the life right out of you.
They consume every waking hour.
Some just say life is too short and do something that they really enjoy doing.
So I would be fine with it.